REPOST: Riding in the car with my ex's dad

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REPOST: Riding in the car with my ex's dad

Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:44 am

PLEASE READ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just had this dream earlier today concerning my ex's family. I haven't had a dream of my ex in a loooooong time. Checkit out and tell me what the spirit leads you to say! God bless and thanks in advance!
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Had a dream that I was walking around some place trying to find someone? I quickly had a baby in my arms that was small but had an adult head. The baby was debilitated? and was a special needs child. I remember trying to find where this baby's mom was because I was somewhat turned off by it (I wouldn't be IRL, just in the dream).

I then saw my ex's father (who by the way currently works at my old job IRL), he had on a white t-shirt and was walking around all jovial and being 'extra friendly' towards me. In the next scene, I remember being with him inside of his car and he was driving (I was in the passenger's side). On floor next to my feet was my friend's phone that I didn't get to return to her but would. The phone in the dream looked similar to my mom's phone IRL. The special needs baby was also by my feet. I guess my friend was the mother? Anyway, I attempted to pick up the phone to call my friend to let her know that she could come by my place to pick up her stuff before graduation in the morning. I knew the number had stated with a "7" but I couldn't think of the other numbers!!lol I remember riding past this apartment complex that was dimly lit. On the porch/sidewalk was a little baby (no older than one years old), who was shirtless, had a ponytail, and diaper on, playing in a puddle of water. The baby seemed enthralled with what she was doing. The mom (who looked like a teenager) peeked behind the door to grab up her child (I guess she was making sure noone saw her?)

As I and my ex's father talked back and forth, it was a comfortable atmosphere between us and we both poured out our hearts? He was being so nice to me and making suggestions (it seemed like he was making up for lost time and make the situation right because he felt guilty that he possibly had something to do with me and his son's breakup? ) He kept showing me things and in particular a magazine--which on one page he pointed out "REBE JACKSON" (Michael Jackson's sister). He said, "Look at Rebe"? In the background, a Michael Jackson song was playing ("Beat it" intro and "Thriller") my ex's father had turned up his radio and I said, "this my song" and started dancing inmy seat, comfortably (I guess he knew I LOVE MJ!) As I was listening to him go from subject to subject I told him that I had "really loved his son", letting him know that I had cared about his son and was not trying to "hoodwink" him!lol...It's like the father was understanding and he knew I cared. He said, "Who knows, ya'll may just get back together and get married again, etc". I was surprised that he even mentioned the possibility. I told him that I was over his son and that i had grow past some things and matured. Furthermore I wanted to get married around 35 and focus on my career (which IRL, I want to get my career out of the way first) He looks at me like he's unconvinced with my decision (I guess he feels like I can have a career and have a successful marriage at the same time.) I'm just surprised that this man actively wants to take me somewhere and is participating in conversation with me after all of these years.

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Post by unaday* on Tue Jun 01, 2010 10:31 am

Hey Desiree
My thoughts so i may jump all over here.
First of all a few things stood out to me. Rebbie Jackson's father was against her marriage and i find it interesting that in your dream your ex's father may have been guilty in helping with the break up. Second of all the songs Beat it and Thriller have a similar background of 'warnings'. The father being in the driver seat makes me wonder if he did have some sort of control over the destiny of your previous relationship.
I know there is more to the dream i.e) baby - but these are my thoughts so far!

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Re: REPOST: Riding in the car with my ex's dad

Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Wed Jun 02, 2010 1:59 pm

yeah, the BEAT IT and THRILLER songs were significant to me as in "Danger" so thanks for pointing that out!

yeah, Rebbie's father wanted her to be in showbiz but she wanted a simpler life. Rebbie is also the eldest child (which I am too) and she kind of took on the responsibility of a "second mother" to her siblings as well. She currently has partial custody of MJ's children, and will have full custody when Katharine Jackson (MJ's Mother) dies.

I have always felt like a mother type in my family. My siblings call me "MamaDesi" from time to time out of sarcasm, but I have embraced so many responsibilities over the years--so I feel Rebbie's pain!!lol

I think what you've said about my ex's father is correct. I don't think his parents even really liked me like that--they thought I was using him. Everytime I see his parents they do act supernice--and maybe that's because of their guilt?

I am just happy that I've grown and have overcome the past! Praise God for the many prayers of the saints that pushed me through!!

Thanks for your response too!

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Re: REPOST: Riding in the car with my ex's dad

Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Wed Jun 02, 2010 5:49 pm

MANIFESTATION(JUNE 2, 2010)
AFTER GOING BACK THROUGH THE DREAM WORKSHEET (WHICH BY THE WAY REALLY WORKS!lol) I realized that there have been several people at my job neglecting their responsibilities and putting them on me so to speak, and it's like they don't want the head hauncho in charge to know they are passing their work off on me because I'm the newbie! (THIS IS THE MANIFESTATION OF THE BABIES THAT I HAD TAKEN RESPONSIBILITY FOR AND SAW ONE NEGLECTED ON A PORCH)

Also, IRL, I am quite over my ex and comfortable around his family and friends now that I'm in a different place. BUT I still wonder if his father's motives are pure? Is his being nice really authentic? I mean he was an okay person before (and grant it, he may have changed over the years) but he's never been so open and nice towards me--neither has his wife (my ex's mom). So when my sister tells me about how my ex's father invited her to lunch and has done all of these things for her (they work together currently), I just wonder if there is a hidden agenda?

I'm still uncertain about the Rebbie Jackson part that he directed me too, but I'm sure there is an explaination for that! It's like he was showing me to pattern my life after her or something?lol

Just wanted to share the revelation I had gotten!

Thanks for listening
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