The best anti-rape advice EVER!

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The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Mia Sherwood on Sat Feb 27, 2010 2:58 pm



My aunt was raped and strangled when I was 8. She was 17. Since then I've thought often about what I would ever do if I was ever acccousted. The answer that's always come to my mind is the answer that came from the bible, CRY OUT!

This message confirms to me that the bible advice, on even the topic of what to do when attacked, is always the best advice.

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mia

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This might help save your life one day. If you are a man, send this your wife, fiance, sister, or any related female you care about.
Long read but worth it.. Pass it on to every female you know, (even if you don't want to read don't delete)..
Great advice for yourself, or, for the men, the women in your life.

Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)

When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to my lady friends, but I forwarded it to most everyone in my address book. My men friends have female friends and this Information is too important to miss someone.

Please pass it along and share it with your children.

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, brai d or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed . They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair . Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.

4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5: 00a.m. and 8:30a.m.

5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. The number two: office parking lots/garages. Number three: public restrooms.

6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it b ecause it will be time-consuming.

9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

Keys are NOT a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in a n elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it?, or make general small talk: 'I can't believe it is so cold out here,' 'We're in for a bad winter.' Now you've seen their face and could iden tify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.

11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP! or STAY BACK! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if sh e yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the Arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.

14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and he's out of th ere.

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!

You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do : The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans : If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5 A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot or parking garage:

A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.

B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY . (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP! It may get you raped or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'

The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking t hat someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby --- This should be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in Louisiana ...

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well.
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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by daphanie02 on Mon Mar 08, 2010 11:11 am

i particurlarly LOVE the one about kicking the tail light out of the car and sticking your arm through the hole and waving like mad!


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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by hind'sfeet on Mon Mar 08, 2010 12:18 pm

This thing tells me I should cut my hair cause no matter what I do with it, it's too long, I braid it, I leave it in a bun, leave it down, doesn't matter! lol! They could even use it against me, no ropes necessary, they could literally strangle me with my OWN hair! duh

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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by daphanie02 on Mon Mar 08, 2010 6:00 pm

Yeah i was going to say something similar HF!!! My hair is to my elbows!


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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by hind'sfeet on Mon Mar 08, 2010 7:02 pm

We should pray for our hair lol! that it would strangle them instead!!! rofl

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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Mar 15, 2010 8:12 pm



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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by newleaf on Wed Oct 20, 2010 10:09 am

I wanted to add this
do not stop for a baby in a car seat -go somewhere and call 911 it is a trap do not run your wipers if someone throws egg on your car-you wont be able to see- just drive away
got an email this week about keeping women safe

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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Dove-Solutions on Wed Oct 20, 2010 5:27 pm

Very good tips. I will be passing on the info. Thanks


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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Delightful soul on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:08 am

Great tips...I never knew about the van thing....

Satan is creative but in the sickest ways.

BTW I had a really short haircut the other day,I'm so glad

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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:57 am

laugh


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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Nina on Sat Jan 15, 2011 5:32 pm

Hi
Thank you for you post.
I wanted to learn how to defend myself against anybody dangerous and this topic is on point. think woman and children should know how to defend themselves and call for help.
Nothing wrong woth learning selfdefense or having a spray(i don't know the name that makes you cough and cry)
:) God bless you

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Re: The best anti-rape advice EVER!

Post by Grey Butterfly on Sun Jan 30, 2011 3:31 pm

Hi Mia, I read and appreciated... there is a lot of good, commonsense tips in there, thanks.

The baby thing is a hoax though, there is a good site called hoax slayer that I always check when I get warnings via e-mail... I got that particular one and looked it up, the people at hoax slayer get sent all sorts of e-mails and they look into them. If you look that one up, they have a detailed analysis on it... just thought I'd let you know. God bless :o) Diane

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