Never Getting Married...Hmmm

You know, I read all these posts and I am reminded of a prophesy said over me about this very topic. It is wierd because I never really had the desire to be married or get married up until a couple of years ago. I wasn't the little girl that planned out her wedding and was more concerned about my education and obtaining degrees and progressing that way. I dated guys, but was so devistated about my father abandoning me as a child that I didn't really concern myself with relationships. In fact, I was more the heart breaker to everyone.

Now though, I believe the Lord had been changing all of that. I thought that he was telling me that I would be given a family- not just the body of Christ-those sisters and brothers, but a physical family... like the one that I never really had growing up.

Then, I invited a couple of ladies from church over to my house and we made lunch and were enjoying each other's company when they both sort of double teamed me and started telling me that I would never get married and that I needed to stop "bothering" God about the subject. They did not use those exact words, but that was my interpretation of what they said. I was really hurt by this... its about two years later and I am still somewhat bound by this prophesy that they said over me... and I am still not married. God's timing is perfect.. but still... I just dont know what to do with all of that.

Girl!!!!! Knock those HORRIBLE words off of your shoulders and begin to praise God for the family that HE is going to give you. You have to be VERY careful about who speaks into your life especially since God has done some wonderful things inside of you to change your desire. Who are these ladies to tell you that you will NEVER get married? That is God's call, not theres.

What you should do is go before God...once and for all...give your desire over to Him and move on with your life in faith. In the meantime, while you wait on Him, bury yourself in the Word of God and allow Him to build you up and speak to you through His Word so the next time a person or people come to you with that type of "sideline" prophecy, you will be able to take a stance inwardly and let the false words they tell you, fall to the ground.

Blessings to you and Happy Waiting!!

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH CHOLETTE! SHE COULD NOT HAVE EXPLAINED IT ANY BETTER!

You can reverse negative word curses spoken over your life! GOD CAN GIVE YOU THE DESIRES OF YOUR HEART! JUST TRUST IN HIM! I would start telling God "thank you for my husband God". And just start walking in that until it manifests. It wouldnt' even hurt to get out a notepad and start being specific about what you want too!

WE are praying for you!
Desiree (Starpop)

Good morning i am just getting this post. Not only can you reverse these curses you can break them off you in Jesus name! Can I get an ! So in Jesus name I break off all word curses and cover you in the blood of Jesus and speak blessings to fill in where curses were placed. I bless you with a Godly husband and to be fruitful with children and many years of happiness.

Love in Jesus,

Connie

OH, my goodness! What a horrific thing to say to you!

This is one of the reasons we should "try the spirit by the spirit". Evidentally you have done this without even realizing you've done it. None of what these ladies "prophelied" to you agreed with your spirit. It only brought doubt.

Free yourself from being bound to these words so you can move on in the good life God has prepared for you. I agree with what our fellow sisters have said to you.

The Lord wants me to share this with you today:

Isaiah 54:4-10

4: Fear not; for thou shalt not be ashamed: Neither be thou confounded; for thou shall not be put to shame: for thou shalt forget the shame of thy youth, and shalt not remember the reproach of thy widowhood anymore.
5: For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Isreal; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.
6: For the LORD hath called thee as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, and a wife of youth, when thou wast refused, saith thy God.
7: For a small moment have I forsaken thee; but with great mercies will I
gather thee.
8: In a little wrath I hid my face form thee for a moment; but with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee, saith the LORD thy Redeemer.
9: For this is as the waters of Noah unto me: for as I have sworn that the waters of Noah should no more go over the earth; so have I sworn that I would not be wroth with thee, nor rebuke thee.
10: For the mountain shall depart and the hills be removed; but my kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of my peace be removed, saith the LORD that hath mercy on thee.


I just want to remind you how much He loves you. You are his special treasure! He fashioned you with his own hands to make you the wonderful woman of God that you are. He loves you because he made you. But he knows you love him so much! "Do not be crushed by what others say but take hope in what I say; says the Lord your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel. Know that he wants to know everything about you. There is nothing to small to talk to God about or to big. He wants you to tell him everything. Just like a husband wants to know his wife....Your husband Jesus wants to know you. Your emotions and your thoughts and your woes and your joys. The Lord also says that he will bless those who bless you and curse those who curse you. Further down in the scripture I gave you he says: No weapon formed against you will prosper and that every tongue that rises against you in judgement you shall condemn, this is the heritage of the servants of the Lord. Thats you sweetie, a servant of the Lord. A child of the Most High! Walk in it! Believe it!

Love in Jesus,

connie

Oh Yeah I almost forgot! Thank you Jesus for the reminder.

Isaiah 55:8-11

8: For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.
9: For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.
10: For as the rain cometh down, and the snow from the heaven, and returneth not thither, but watereth the earth, and maketh it bring forthe and bud, that it may give seed to the sower, and bread to the eater:
11: So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereonto I sent it.


Receive it!

Believe it! God spoke it and promised it to you!

You are all so very kind. Thanks you for those words and I receive it... and I believe it! I'm blessed by your encouragment and give God all the glory!!!!!!!!

I just want you all to know that I am totally in love now. Met a guy about 2 months ago (actually someone I knew a long long time). God is good!!!

I don't even know you and I am excited for you. I just read this post for the first time. God Bless you and your new relationship

that is awesome!!! Bless ur relationship..,

u knw someone said that to me aslo..tht the Lord is prob annoyed at me brning up this request of soulmate and doesnt want to hear it..
i told them thats nto true..lords wants to hear it ALL..if He put a desire in ur heart ..He will let it come to pass...