My exhusband and I - old house to new house..

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My exhusband and I - old house to new house..

Post by chica4christ on Mon Apr 20, 2009 9:00 am

I had a dream this morning on Sunday april 18th
that for some reason i had returned to my former house with the real
estate agent trying to see if I could purchase the house. It was then
my ex husband walks in and says you must be brave to be in this house
and trying to buy it, I didn’t say anything to him.

The next thing I remembered is that he said “we don’t need to buy this
house” again, lets go to the next one and I looked at him and said what
are you talking about? And he was like we’re going to get whatever
house you want and I’ve just realized that you want to play the role
like a man and make all the decisions and I looked at him and said no
darian, it’s not like that anymore….i said I have changed and whatever
you want, I want as well and im willing to work with you..and he just
looked at me and was like WOW ok. So we went to the next house and it
wasn’t what we wanted but then we saw a former friend of his in that
house that was selling it and the next thing I remember is my ex saying
something about in the next 6 months we’re going to buy a house and I
looked at him and was like well arent you still married, but that’s
going to be over soon. Then he hugged me, but there was no kissing, and
it seemed based on the dream that he is making plans to leave her, but
I have no idea what this means. My ex and I will have been divorced 2
yrs on May 9th.

This is the 3rd dream in the last 6 months where there is a pattern
of him wanting to leave his current wife. He remarried 1 yr after our
divorce and has been married now almost 2 yrs in June.
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Re: My exhusband and I - old house to new house..

Post by princessarielle12 on Mon Apr 20, 2009 12:37 pm

Hey chica4christ

I just read your dream and I'm not sure if my interpretation is correct. Pray about it. But when you talked about going to your former house, to me I had the impression that you're still leaving in your past, you're having a hard time to completely let go of it in spite of the many years that separate you from it.

Your former husband coming back in that house as well but telling you to move on after having seemigly blamed you. I feel, and I may be wrong, but I feel like you have not been able to completely leave the past. And I feel like you were blaming yourself too for the divorce.

May be the fact that he wants to live his current wife is a sign from God to reveal that there is a deeper problem in him and you may not have been the only cause of your divorce.

If this is not correct, I apologize and just ignore my reply but if it is correct, I just want to encourage you to reach out to God and close the door to the past. If you have been blaming yourself, do not blame yourself no more because the Bible says there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. You may have made mistakes in the past, but now you cannot go back and change it. What you should do is ask for forgiveness to God and then forgive yourself. If you do that with all your heart, then He has forgiven you.

Remember also that in the Bible, when Samuel was crying because of the disobedience of Saul, he thought it was the end but God told him to stop and told him He had already chosen the next king of Israel. So, Samuel was sent to anoint him. If you do not close the door, you will not be able to move on with your life and who knows what God has in store for you! The sky is the limit, if you would just surrender everything to Him!

Hope this help a bit!

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