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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by daisyscheihing on Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:07 pm

hi vile,
praying for you.i have not forgot you out there ....some where!
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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by dreamster on Fri Mar 13, 2009 12:24 am

um hi vile..u think u hav issuses,,i hav a frend who is in a ministry that helps christians wiv there sexual stuff,im told that 60% of church pple watch porn on a satnite b4 church on sunday,,that was a bonefied statistik.,,so there is a lotta junk in the trunk of the church,, rofl rofl i guess it gets supressed an pple hope it will go away,,ive had my fair share of junk 2 deal wiv...everyone does if their honest.. :roflx: :roflx: :roflx: ohhhh loorrddy,, :eek: :eek: hee hee ill stop now cos i feel wicked humour coming on,,and i dont wanna offend,,,,


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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:36 am

Hey, at least I'm honest. I don't really care if you think it's funny or not. Since that time, though, even if it's just a few days, I haven't gotten into that stuff. I don't even watch porn, it's all in my head.

I personally wouldn't laugh so hard at other people honestly trying to break away from their problems, though. Even though I have thick skin, other people don't. You getting all giggles about someone's sin can cause someone to leave a Church or worse. It's true I talk about it in a humorous manner, but that's just how I deal with things.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Jadams on Fri Mar 13, 2009 10:38 am

Oh Vile, you have to understand Dreamster's humor. He's not making fun of your issue or others. Please don't be offended...those of us who communicate with D know how to receive him and believe me, he's not making fun at this issue at all. Most people on the site understand him. flower

I'm proud that it's been a few days for you...keep it up and put it all in God's hands. Have you been trying to replace those thoughts with other things like playing some praise and worship music or praying? It helps...trust me! thumbs

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by dreamster on Fri Mar 13, 2009 1:23 pm

im sorry vile..my jest was not at u ,,but myself,,im not makin fun of u at all..merely sharein wat ive encountered,,i wasnt sugesting u watch porn at all,,just showing that sex stuff is a big thing in the church in genral..i am not laughing at u at all..im tryin 2 support u,,im easyly misundastood cos im not frm usa,,cut me some slack,,im on ur side,, flower D


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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by dreamster on Fri Mar 13, 2009 1:45 pm

oh t u jmmy 4 clarifying me.. thumbs


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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Fri Mar 13, 2009 7:28 pm

Oh, I know! I'm not offended at all, just letting her know to clarify things because I read that after a REALLY long day at work and it took me a couple of times reading it to get it all. Especially on the internet, miscommunications can really tear things apart.

Slack is cut. Just a little overstressed from school.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Jadams on Fri Mar 13, 2009 8:59 pm

huggins Here is a hug from me...hope things settle down for you soon.

FYI...Dreamster is a guy... :snicker: : :snicker: :

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by daphanie02 on Mon Mar 16, 2009 9:07 pm

My pastor made a wonderful analogy this Sunday. The crow can fly over your head, just dont let him make a nest in your hair.

Interpretation: Just because a thought, feeling, or emotion goes through your head doesnt mean you have to entertain it. Just tell it to Go away. The bible says to think on the things that are true, kind, pure and lovely...

hope this helps..it was pretty powerful to me.
love,


Laura Boaz (aka Daph)


 


 


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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Tue Mar 17, 2009 6:16 pm

Went a week, but caught myself in the middle of it. I'm this close from being free. At least I was able to hit the brakes this time.

Some say your body can want the chemicals like a nicotine addiction because they are used to having that hormonal overdrive that if you do it too much your body starts craving those chemicals. Sometimes that's how fast it hits, it's like I'm trying to get to bed and then *BOOM*.

Fortunately, I'm catching the thoughts ahead of time a lot easier now. Getting the new pillow for my neck problem is also getting me to sleep faster so I don't have as much time to "ponder".

I wonder if this is anything like trying to quit smoking. I'm making progress, but there are sharp physical cravings after not having it for a certain time. I know Christians who have been delivered from a pack to a cigarette a day and they are working down slowly.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Tue Mar 17, 2009 7:52 pm

that's a good quote Daphanie! That really does make a lot of sense!

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by ThisIsSparta on Fri Mar 27, 2009 4:27 pm

you are just fine Vile.


you should not feel sorry for wanting to be married and wanting physical intimacy in marriage.


i'm so sick of JEALOUS people who come along and try to be all preachy and self-righteous, throwing scriptures at you out of context just because they are not honest with themselves about how they feel.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Sat Mar 28, 2009 3:39 pm

Ten days without it and counting... ^_^

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Sat Mar 28, 2009 4:13 pm

Congrats!! keep up the good work--one day at a time...one day at a time!

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Wed Apr 01, 2009 10:11 am

14 days. Faltered a little since my hormones kick in around this time as a female, but I'm still kicking it.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Jadams on Wed Apr 01, 2009 10:25 am

:clap: :clap: :clap: Keep praying...God has this...think how awesome it will be when your husband finally arrives and you will be able to share the experience with him...you are a NEW WOMAN girl!!!!

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by butterfly on Sat Apr 18, 2009 6:59 pm

Hi Vile. There are scriptures verses that I wanted to share with you.

Romans 6 verse 6

[6] Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin.

Galatians 5 verse 24

[24] And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.

I remember one day God was dealing with me about lust. He told me that I should not keep my mind unoccupied at all because if I did it would allow Satan and his demons to put lustful thoughts in my mind.

Matthew 12 verses 43-45

[43] When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none.
[44] Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished.
[45] Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.

Phillipians 4 verses 8 state:

[8] Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

God wants us to purposely think good thoughts because if we keep our mind on good thoughts there is no place or room for bad or wrong thoughts.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Renewed on Mon May 04, 2009 10:16 am

I used to have that problem
Evidently in my own life a door was open. I used to also have sexual encounters in my dreams. Once it was made known what the problem was. I confess my sins, repent and took authority over it.

Spirits has a way to attaching itself to us. In m yown life not only was I sexually assaulted, I work in a prison system where the spirit of perversion was manifested greatly. it took me many many yeras to come to this. Anyway on top of that I used to read sexually explicit book, watch porn. But Thank God, Jesus came to set the captives free. And I am free indeed.

I was also told that people who has thes problems was involved in the following area;
sex ouside marriage, sex with objects, sex with animals, abortions, watching porn, reading porn, abortion, lesbinism, homosexuality, rape, incest. And believe it or not daytime/nighttime soap operas are consider soft porn. Our eyes it a gateway.

These things are open door for spirits to attach itself to us. Once you confess and repent, ususally you are free and normally that;s all it takes. Once you stay away from it. In case some need deep deliverence, find a deliverence church but be careful, some of then are quacky and spooky. They will have you worse off then you was before. Be led by the sprit of God.

I hope I am making sense

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Thu May 07, 2009 4:49 am

I was told that I have serious issues about self-sufficiency. Not that it's always a bad thing, but I don't rely on others or God unless it goes too far.

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Dove-Solutions on Thu May 07, 2009 5:14 am

I am proud of you Vile! I have been keeping on eye on this and I am praying for your continued freedom......hang on to Jesus.....never let him go....God bless and know that you are loved.

Love in Jesus,

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Thu May 07, 2009 8:47 pm

I'm finding that I'm going... "Uhm... why?" when it happens rather than enjoying the lustful thoughts too much. It's been getting spaced out more and more, but being under a lot of stress has gotten me distracted with finals.

It's really just stupid. I'm not banging my head over the whole ordeal like I used to, but at the same time, I need to remain vigilant and not condemning. It's almost mechanical... I think my friends in Christ might be right that I've done it for so many years that my body depends on the chemicals. I'm not sexually active, but maybe taking birth control to suppress those hormones will help.

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Post by Renewed on Fri May 08, 2009 5:39 am

No....... I've been throuht the same thing too.
Just cry out to Jesus............. He will deliver you just like he delivered me. I have known of cases with some it was instantly, with others it was progressive. Just you talking about mean you are heading in the right direction. Open confessin is good for the soul.

I was reading this website a woman has on this same topic. One day while in the midst of the act, she said the Lord open her eyes and she saw the spirt that was behind it. She said it was the most hideous evil loking thing that she ever saw. She even said that it was short and fat. She immediately was set free and now has a minsitry on this. I was like 'oh no" I do not even want to see anything like that, must have been that, that helped set me free too.
My memeory is a bit blur, but I will try to locate her ministry and send it to you.

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Post by Guest on Fri May 08, 2009 10:21 am

here is a link you might want to check
http://www.globalwarfare.org.ph/contents/healing_deliverance/lust/Overcome%20Lust.pdf
these are not regulars demons these are strongholds..assign to keep you at the gates..distractions
We are warned in the bible not to spill our seed even there we are prevented to show ourselves in front of God for certain time..
Now beign in the new covenant with Jesus ..the blood will make up for our short comings..but why do you want to sin when we already know the truth?
Do not let the devil to manipulate you ..no more!
take control of your flesh..cast down all thoughts..the strenght is inthe imagination..remember the powers of the air..satan's Kingdom
Cast down all the thoughts in your mind of these nature..do not entertain them in your thoughts ..do not fix your eyes in the images..take some bible phrases as a referent Psalm 91..46.54,121,any of those..and every time you will have them..do this and pray for the Lord to give a mate suitable to your needs..and be patient..because when the Lord promise for sure He delivers..the devil's is the only one that does not want you to enjoy that blessing..you know why?
because when you have it..you will praise the Lord all the days of your life for the good he has done to you..
and when praise goes to heaven strongholds are cast down...
got the picture?
I will pray for you for deliverance and for a mate to make your days on these earth happy according to God's will.
Shalom,

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by Vile on Sat May 09, 2009 8:41 am

Thanks for the support, guys! This stronghold is reaaaally deep. I have problems asking God and others for help. I've been in defense mode for so long that I have troubles letting my heart go to Jesus. Masterbation is only part of the problem. I recently got a view of how deep this rabbit hole goes.

It gives me literal chest pains when I try and pray about it. I've had about five women in the Church praying over the stronghold and one got pushed off of me. All she could say was "... So many walls... oh God."

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Re: Lust Problems (Adult Topic)

Post by dreamster on Sat May 09, 2009 10:27 pm

fear not ,,vile every thang must bow the knee 2 jesus,, :clap: :clap: u will make it through..its a process,,like an onion,,many layers,,just be patiant,,dont beat urself up,,our god is mercyful beyond measure,, :cute: :cute:his grace IS sufficiant 4 u,,, :clap: thumbs D


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