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Post by unaday* on Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:18 am

I had last night that I was in my brother's room with my fiancé, his sister, his mother and my brother.

Then his father came in the room (his father died in 1992). We were all amazed to see him and knew that he was dead. They were like is this really you. He said yes it’s me! He laughed and he smiled. My fiancé’s sister poked him to see if he was real and so did I and he reconfirmed it. Now it was just me, my fiancé’s sister and mother in the room with his father. In the dream he was 72 years old..that is the age he would have been if he was still alive. I said to his father you are just like my fiancé- you smile and laugh like him. He said yes he is. He said to me that my fiancé will remain this type of man even as he grows old. Then he laughs and said he may put on a few pounds here and there but he will remain the same man. I just loved his father. During this my fiancé mother sat at the head of the bed with a peaceful smile. Then his father got quiet and went and lied on the bed. He said it’s time for me to go now. I went out in the hall and called for my fiancé and my brother to come back up in the room. He said it again lying on the bed. It’s time for me go now. I called them again! They ran up the stairs and came in the room. I turned to my fiancé and said your father is going now. Sad Tears welled up in my fiancé’s eyes and he ran out of the room. I chased after him. He went into my parents room I could feel his mourning. He broke down in tears and I hugged him, trying my hardest not to cry.

I jumped out of my sleep and heard in my spirit. Your fiancé’s father came to give his stamp of approval.



(writing this I just remembered that his father died at home in his bed one night with his sister and his mother by his side while he passed on)

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Re: Fiance's father that died- Repost

Post by unaday* on Tue Feb 03, 2009 2:24 pm

any ideas???

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Re: Fiance's father that died- Repost

Post by pwilso512 on Tue Feb 03, 2009 4:18 pm

Before I read what you wrote at the end of your post, I thought the dream was about your fiancé’s father giving you his stamp of approval. So, I think you are right. I do wonder if your fiancé is still dealing with his father's death. Maybe he wishes he was there when his father passed. Or maybe he wishes his father was here to see how he's grown and to meet the person he will spend the rest of his life with. These are just my thoughts. Hope it helps.

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Re: Fiance's father that died- Repost

Post by unaday* on Tue Feb 03, 2009 7:53 pm

He does wish he was here to see everything...And yes he does still mourn his father!

ThanksPwilso!

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Re: Fiance's father that died- Repost

Post by RnestseekR on Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:54 am

I didn't get that the father was there to give you his stamp of approval, but rather that you were being given a reassurance that your fiance is the man you beleive him to be - a good man, with a kind heart. And that when you are old, you will sit like the mother at the end of the bed with peace and love for the mate God has chosen for you. I also get that the reaction of your fiance to his dad's leaving was something that you needed to see to keep you sensitive to your fiance's sense of loss. In other words, there may be times in your marriage that your fiance may act strangely/inappropriately, and you may need to remember that he does not have his father-figure anymore to go to ask questions about being a husband or a dad or a "honey-do-fix-it-man". And I also sense that maybe you are being called to pray for healing for fiance in this area of hurt and loss. Pretty much the same interpretation, but with a slight twist.

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Re: Fiance's father that died- Repost

Post by unaday* on Thu Feb 05, 2009 8:07 am

Um wow...it's interesting that you wrote that because some time before that as confident as i was and is in God's choice for me i see so many women husbands change for the worse and I was like Lord please not me and i had the dream not too long after that! Wow...i believe you are on point

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