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Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Thu Jan 08, 2009 9:48 am

Had a dream that two girls that I did't even know, had told me that my youngest sibling was behind a building/inside a closet kissing a boy. I thought: I hope she doesn't get pregnant. I was trying to get loud and tell all the details while my mother was in the room so she could here but then I recanted. I thought: "She has her own mind and she has to make her own decisions. I am not her keeper." (I KNOW, sounds bad right? lol! )

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Post by lola21st on Thu Jan 08, 2009 2:21 pm

Maybe it's call to intercede rather than intervene?

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Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Thu Jan 08, 2009 3:55 pm

I will definitely intercede!! I know that she constantly talks about doing the right thing. She will be all alone in high school next year so I will definitely ask for God's protection on her behalf and that she will be focused!!

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Post by RnestseekR on Thu Jan 08, 2009 4:02 pm

Was your motivation for getting your mom's attention to get your sister in trouble or to protect her? In other words, were you calling out to a higher authority in order to benefit your sister or just cause it was an "I'm telling mom!" situation? Just a thought for self-reflection - no need to respond publicly!

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Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Sat Jan 10, 2009 3:47 pm

lol--thanks for your response!!! kiss

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Post by dreamster on Sat Jan 10, 2009 4:11 pm

can u speak directly,,,to her...so yur mom doesnt hav 2 hear,,maybe she really needs your help rite now,,u didnt hav the dream 4 nothing...even if she does know the mechanics,,a sisters weords can do so much more,,i dn\ont think u shood pull bak .but do the opposite,,,???let me kno,,desi.. flower D


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Post by Desiree (Starpop) on Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:05 pm

Thanks D for your response
I talk to my mother all the time--so I know that she understands. I will definitely pray and my sister (who doesn't live with me currently) is always excited to see me (I work all the time) and we often will talk about relationships, etc.

pray that I won't be judgemental or critical towards her--we've all been there (young love)

I agree-I don't think I dream things for nothing.
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Post by dreamster on Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:21 pm

indeed...well all the best wiv that... flower D


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