my ex husband getting divorced for the 2nd time....

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Post by chica4christ on Tue Jan 06, 2009 8:49 am

I had a dream in which I was with my ex-husband and we were headed
out to a park or a picnic. The odd thing about it was that it seemed
as though he was no longer married... I was not exactly happy to be
with him again but I was ok with it.

In any event, he gets a phone call from his wife, and he begans to
mumble and say things under his breath that I knew weren't good.
Eventually he hangs up, and we head out to their home. At this
point, I'm still peaceful and okay with everything. We walk into
their home and they had a nice home, i saw pictures of their wedding
and a picture as well of her family, which included her, her mom,
aunts and cousins.

I did not completely understand what was going on but I finally
figured out why we were there, he was there to finalize the divorce.
I was flabergasted and couldn't believe that he was divorcing her
after just marrying her recently. (He did remarry over summer '08
and we divorced in May 07). He had the look of he didn't care and
was blaming her "daughter" for the divorce which in real life, she
doesn't have, she has 2 young sons though?? You could tell she was
distraught, upset and even looked bigger physically in the dream
than in real life. I was completely devastated that he could do
something like this and for some reason or another was tellng her,
I'm so sorry marcie, after having known this man for 7 years, yes 7,
I am not surprised he is doing this to you. I just couldn't believe
it...

Meanwhile, I was pacing around the house not knowing what to think
since in REAL life I had numerous dreams last year and in the
beginning of this year(you can do a search with my screen name and
see what I'm talking about) that it seemed like the Lord has been
wanting us to reconcile but after he remarried, I moved on and now
am dating a young Christian man that I am very happy with...So, in
my dream I walked out a little confused not knowing what to think
because of the dreams the Lord had revealed to me and being with the
young man I am with now....

I apologize for the length, but I just had a dream a few weeks back
that my ex husband had grabbed his chest and kept saying over and
over, it wasn't supposed to be this way. I posted that dream as well
for better context.

Thanks and God Bless,
Stephani

PS, I am no longer with the young man i had dreamed about, God took care of that LOL...it was short lived, only a month.

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Post by SeekYeFirst on Wed Jan 07, 2009 6:33 pm

Chica4Christ,

Be sensitive to the HolySpirit!!!! If you do nothing else do that. I talk from experience. Have you asked God what was his will in this situation? If so, have he given you an answer? If so again, are you obeying?

My husband and I separated in 2005 and are still separated currently. I was completely ready to move toward the divorce and get on with my life. I had done made all my plans and God in May of 2008 rewrote my plans according to the his will and gave me specific instructions to STAY and STAND.

Eventhough my situation looks far from what God has said, I believe God and have yielded to his command. There has been such a change in me concerning the situation. God has given me my desire for him again, I'm at a place of extending mercy and forgiveness and back in 05 none of these things were present. So I know it's God.

Now as for you, clarity and wisdom is going to be key. Your husband being divorced in the dream speaks volumes. He's separating/ridding himsself of a particular area in his life.

God Bless,
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Post by chica4christ on Thu Jan 08, 2009 7:42 am

Seek Ye First,

I have not prayed about what this dream means or what the Lord would will from it. My ex and I divorced in May 07 and in June 07, I found out he had another woman already and he married her this last summer...I had been standing firm for the restoration of my marriage, but God had been preparing me that he was going to remarry through dreams and such. HE has married again obviously, but I keep having dreams about him, like the one i posted and a another dream shortly before as well, I will post that one at the end of my reply. in any event I have had over 100 dreams now since June of 07 and half of those if not more have been about my ex husband, the Lord revealing himself to me about his heart and his relationship with his now wife. I gave up standing and since september have started dating of which not one has worked out, somehow something always ends up happening and the dating time is very short lived, the longest has been 1 month Scratch Chin . So....during this time of singleness I am going to focus 100% on God and not concerned about if or when or how God is supposed to reconcile my ex and I if he is already married, and I did not know what to make of the dream either since it was pretty deep him having the gall to divorce his wife after such a short period of time. Of course this could not be literal at all but in any event found Gods humor interesting. So basically my heart has softened, I forgave my ex a long time ago, hold nothing against him, if I was to see him again I would be like hi, how are you?? etc.... I have tried to go to him numerous times to ask for forgiveness but he would have none of it... Last night i felt compelled to sleep with my wedding band and had peace about it but who knows, i'm not stressing, i just trust God and know HE has the best in store for me. thinking

Here is the dream I had on Dec 12th....
I dreamed that I went to his house to talk about
the IRS stuff oddly enough LOL. Well, I walk in the house to talk to
him and he suddenly grabs his chest and falls to the ground on his
back. He kept saying its not suppose to be this way its not suppose to
be this way??? I was so concerned i got on my knees next to him and was
like whats wrong?? He said his chest hurt and grabbed it but again kept
saying it wasn't suppose to be like this. Then his wife was there and
she seemed upset but not overtly concerned either. She then proceeds to
give me a gatorade so he can feel better? I looked at her all dumb,
like what are you thinking. I saw her 2 kids in the background and they
didn't know what to make of it either. I also saw her family sitting on
the couch in the background as well but they seemed to be entertained
more than anything....


I will pray diligently about the dream and seek God's direction. praying

Stephani

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Post by SeekYeFirst on Thu Jan 08, 2009 5:08 pm

Chic4Christ,

In this dream he speaks of it not suppose to be like this as he did in the one above and hold his chest. It appears that he has some regret about his decision making.

You are definately on the right track of keeping your focus on the Lord. You can never go wrong submitting wholeheartedly to him if anything you gain.

I pray the God's Will will become clearer to you as you walk hand in hand with him.

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