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My 4 year old getting married

Post by Daisy on Sat Mar 30, 2013 4:24 am

I had a dream, my 4 year old son was getting married. This girl was manipulative, and not good for him. I tried to talk to him about waiting, but he was set on marrying her. I felt so sad inside, bc he is quite innocent, and couldnt discern her wrong motives. I could though. I treated her nice, out of respect for my son. I think I prayed about it in the dream, that part if fuzzy...but I know I was distraught about it, and then I finally released it to The Lord. This girl was after whatever my son could give her (as a 4 yr old, what possesions do you really have lol!) She was pressuring him to get married at the courthouse, and he was set on doing it for her. At the very last min, he had a switch of mind. I was SO relieved, and at that point went into protection mode! WATCH OUT CHICK!!! He came and talked to me, and said, 'Mom, I cant do it. I just cant do it." I was surprised he was talking about not marrying the girl, and that his mind changed so abruptly. I reassured him that he didn't HAVE to, and helped remove his guilt. She for some reason, was laying in my bed with the covers covering her legs during the dream. She was sitting up as one would to get served breakfast in bed. Once she knew my son wasn't going to be tricked by her, she was so angry. I picked her up, (like a teacher or mom would pick up a child to put them in time out) and carried that mean, manipulative girl to the CURB!!! lol!
Once I was carrying her outside, I started chewing her out, while I was carrying her under her arms! I said with SO much authority, (like only a protective mom could say), "YOU listen here, DONT think of coming NEAR my son ever again! If I see you trying to come over, I will call the police IMMEDIATELY! Do you hear me??? Stay away from him, and LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!! I will not give you another warning!!!!" I literally took her to the curb outside!!! rofl (Dont try and trick my baby!)

I find it interesting that I didnt step in, until his free choice was exercised to get rid of this girl, though I wanted to all along....I waited for him to make the choice. Also, irl he is still little, but is totally quite innocent. I hope he will not be naive when he grows up. I do worry about this for my son...he has been so protected by us so far..and rightfully should be. My daughter on the other hand, has a VERY keen sense of discernment, and I wont worry about her being tricked as much irl...she had a rough start (before we adopted her) in life and has some serious survival skills already...instinctively.

Any thoughts??


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Re: My 4 year old getting married

Post by Mia Sherwood on Sat Mar 30, 2013 11:47 am

If this is about your son the good news is he makes good decisions.



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Post by Daisy on Sat Mar 30, 2013 7:45 pm

Mia Sherwood wrote:If this is about your son the good news is he makes good decisions.

this is reassuring..thx. I also found my protectiveness irl quite humorous in this dream.


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Post by Mia Sherwood on Sun Mar 31, 2013 4:16 am

It was that. :)


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Post by exo152 on Sun Mar 31, 2013 7:52 pm

Okay, Daisy, I wasn't going to add anything, because I just do not feel I am mature enough in this area to offer any insight, but as so often before when you have posted dreams, I just keep coming back.....
Do you think your son could represent someone else? Someone who you feel is making a very poor choice? Perhaps you have very strong feelings, but are trying to stay out of it, thinking they are happy and won't welcome your advice? Perhaps you see someone else negatively influencing them and leading them this way and are saying to yourself, the other person is the problem in the whole thing? I just kept thinking this dream was more about giving you insight into the situation, to pray, and to be a listening ear and a helping hand (such as throwing the girl out) when the whole thing implodes. Just my thoughts, so please toss them if they do not fit!!
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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Apr 01, 2013 6:44 am

I was thinking that was a real possibility which is why I said, IF it is about your son.


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Post by Daisy on Sat Apr 06, 2013 5:34 pm

Thx Mia and exo! At Easter my sis said my aunt is so mad that her son is getting back together with his ex wife who has used, manipulated, and mistreated her son. She refused to let her move back in with them ( which is prob good for her son anyways). She's so upset about him getting back together with her. I'm pretty sure this dream was about this situation. I think I may need to pray for wisdom for her in dealing her adult son, so that can help him make the right choice. A lot of times when parents try and strong arm a situation like this, it tends to make the child rebel to express their freedom of choice. I also need to prob pray for him to see the character of this woman who is a mooch and a user...him seeing it for himself. He is so sweet, yet naive.


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Post by Mia Sherwood on Sat Apr 06, 2013 6:27 pm

Maybe you can just tell her that God showed you that he is going to make the right choice in the end, so have faith. :) Because this dream made it clear he would and if he is going to he won't need help, just prayer


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Post by Daisy on Sat Apr 06, 2013 6:51 pm

Amen, thx Mia!


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Re: My 4 year old getting married

Post by Mia Sherwood on Sat Apr 06, 2013 7:01 pm

Keep us posted!

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Re: My 4 year old getting married

Post by jesuschix on Tue Apr 09, 2013 7:18 am

I would pray that God would save there marriage. Pray that he will not be so passive and pray for her to be convicted about her ways. I know that you are more protective of your nephew but God is for that marriage. No matter what anyone else thinks. Marriage is not always about being happy it's about perfecting us to be ready for us to meet the bridegroom (Jesus). Marriage is one of those things that tries our faith and helps perfect us. You may have felt like after you heard this story your sis gave you, you have a protective instict (like a son) to your nephew. God wants you to know to be careful in your reaction to the situation. If you are upset over the way this girl treats your nephew then you need to forgive her. Start by praying that God heals that marriage. You may not like me saying this but God does want them to be together regardless if they know Jesus or not. This is not my word but Gods. Love you and mean it. <>< Jenn

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Re: My 4 year old getting married

Post by jesuschix on Tue Apr 09, 2013 7:19 am

I'm sorry I just read that again. Just change nephew to cousin. nerd

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