A Former Girlfriend's Son

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A Former Girlfriend's Son

Post by TheWhiteShadow on Wed Mar 20, 2013 7:43 am

This dream was short, but here's the basics of it: I was definitely in a relationship with a former girlfriend. In real life, she's happily married with three daughters. In the dream, she had a son, probably in early elementary school. That was all that she had - no other children. I remember sitting with the kid on a couch, and he was leaning against me. This was significant to me, as I expected a child who was already that old to be distant to a would-be stepfather. That's it for the dream.

This is the opposite of how I've related to a stepfathers in real life. No closeness, very guarded, very aware that we're not the same blood. For that reason, I'd be hesitant to date anyone with kids...because I just have a hard time believing that a child that isn't mine would ever be as connected to me as one that was my own.

This dream came on a night were I was doubting the future - whether I'd even be married at all.

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Re: A Former Girlfriend's Son

Post by exo152 on Wed Mar 20, 2013 10:04 am

Do you think the Holy Spirit is trying to soften your stand against dating women with children? Perhaps the very special woman he has for you already has a child, whom you will also have a very close relationship with if you give it a chance??
As for the "former" girlfriend, do you think that could mean a woman (not the one who is actually married with children) but one you perhaps considered a relationship with in the past but changed your mind due to the possible step-child included??
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Re: A Former Girlfriend's Son

Post by TheWhiteShadow on Wed Mar 20, 2013 10:22 am

exo152 wrote:Do you think the Holy Spirit is trying to soften your stand against dating women with children?

Thanks, Exo. I've actually had quite a few dreams that feature me being in a relationship with someone who already has a child. It's a recurring theme, for sure. So, yes...this dream and the others are wearing at me, as you suggested...opening me up to considering this where, in the past, I wouldn't have even given it a thought.

Now...Divorced or Widowed? Is one of them "more" God's plan than the other?

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Post by exo152 on Wed Mar 20, 2013 11:36 am

Just a thought....if God is truly leading you to a relationship with a woman who already has a child, then not only will you benefit from the relationship, BUT there is a woman out there who may have fears about how her child will be received and accepted. And a child who is hungry to have a man in their life who loves them.

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