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2 dreams about my wife

Post by rei on Sun Mar 03, 2013 9:12 am

Hi,

I hope someone will be able to help me. I have prayed about the dreams and GOD has shown me one or two things with regards to the dreams, but I don't know the full meaning.

First dream a couple of months ago:

I dream I come home one afternoon and my wife tells me that she had some people over the previous night (the dream wasn't specific about who it was). She tells me that they all slept over and that they slept in the same room as she did (not sure which room) . It was 9 men and 2 women. I got very upset with her and confronted her about the fact that she allowed strange people to sleep with her in the same room without letting me know. I was especially upset about the 9 men. She couldn't see why I was so upset.

The second dream I had last week:

I dream my wife tells me that she went to the church one weekend to join the group of women who do worship dancing there on the weekend. When she got there none of the women were there. Only my best friend was there, and his wife wasn't with him. The two of them danced together alone. I was also upset and confronted her, she had a blank expression on her face.

I have not told my wife about the two dreams yet. I'm not sure what to do with the dreams, but they worry me somewhat. We have been happily married for more than a year now and I love my wife dearly. On the surface the dreams feel wrong to me, because in both of the dreams I was really upset and woke up the next morning feeling betrayed. I am somewhat insecure, and these dreams aren't helping me.

Whenever I pray about them GOD speaks to me about His Church. He shows me that His Bride sometimes let's Him down, but He keeps on forgiving them and loves them. His grace goes beyond His bride's faults. GOD has also spoken to me about Hosea the prophet a few times.

Thank you for your assistance in advance.

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Re: 2 dreams about my wife

Post by Mia Sherwood on Sun Mar 03, 2013 9:40 am

I don't think this are about actual infidelity because in both dreams your wife is confounded about why you would be so upset. Obviously, if she were doing something intimate with another man, she would not wonder why you were so upset.

Are you a very sensitive person? Or someone who has knee jerk reactions?


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Re: 2 dreams about my wife

Post by rei on Sun Mar 03, 2013 11:36 am

Hi Mia,

Thank you so much for the quick response. Yes, you have a point about my wife's confusion in the dreams. Also, in both of the dreams she freely told me about what happened, which adds to the fact that it doesn't look to have something do with infidelity.

I am definitely an overly sensitive person, but I don't have knee jerk reactions. I mostly freak inwards, rather than outwards. :) Having said that, I probably would have reacted the same way as I did in the dreams. Mainly because dancing is very intimate to me and I also wouldn't want my wife to spend a night in one room with 11 people before telling me about it.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Sun Mar 03, 2013 11:48 am

I am fairly certain that the dreams are symbolic for something else, something that she doesn't really see a problem with but that you would.

In reality, is your wife a fairly circumspect person that wouldn't do anything out of line like that?


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Post by rei on Sun Mar 03, 2013 12:33 pm

That makes a lot of sense yes, thank you Mia! I got it! The dream with the 11 people in the room...9 of them were men. I was more upset about the men being in the room than about the 2 women. This shows me that when it comes to my wife's relational interaction, it will be the interactions with men that upsets me the most. (Not sure about the 9/11 ratio though). Then the dream with the dancing with my friend shows that she gets much "closer" to guys than what I'm used to or even comfortable with. But the fact that she is open about it and told me about it shows that her intentions are pure. So GOD is trying to warn me to not get overly upset, and rather talk to her about it and share my feelings. That way I'm sure we can reach common ground?

Awesome stuff! I feel much better.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Sun Mar 03, 2013 12:57 pm

That is exactly what I was going to tell you. This is about a future event.

The dreams are about your reactions and about your wife's pure intents. You will be getting upset in the future, might not even be about men, and when you do God wants you to remember that your wife never imagined that you'd be upset and that she is being completely honest.

Hope it helps!


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