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Post by dordor on Tue Jul 03, 2012 3:01 am

please i had a dream last night ,i was sitting at large table with others eating.and the there was a guy at this table who was looking at me,he was attracted to me and so was i to him .but in my mind it was like is it" lust" or what? so something happened and it was over we did not date or proceed more than that,so i got over him but he was still at the table with us,i was just preoccupied with something else in my mind ,did not seem to notice or have interest in him.as i was eating at the Table he was talking to his father who was a man of God and was telling the Father that it is me he wants,the Father is a very huge Man with a smiling face that seemed to have something like Joy,laughter or something close tothat bubling in his heart.so he came to me pointed at me and asked him if it is me or someother women who were also at the Table-the women were Blacks like me but i did not see their faces.and he replied to the father ,"no it is her that i want".and one of his friends replied that it is me that he wants -the one with the beautiful brown colour,i was shocked and surprised as all eyes were on me i was schocked and felt like hidding under the table.and in real life my friends ,colleagues and family always compliment my colour and say that it is beautiful!

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Post by Cholette on Tue Jul 03, 2012 9:00 am

Hello Dordor...welcome to the site!!!!

When I first read your dream, I thought about Jesus being the man that wants you. When he went to the Father and said that it is YOU that he wants, it's what the Lord says when He calls us.

I see this dream expressing His need for a deeper relationship with you and I also see it as some point of Him calling you for a purpose...not sure if its one or the other or both.

These are my thoughts, pray about what I've said and if anything doesn't bear witness, please toss!



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Re: a man wants me!

Post by dordor on Tue Jul 03, 2012 9:21 am

Thank you but i have a very close relationship with Jesus.thank you nonetheless for dropping by

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Post by Cholette on Tue Jul 03, 2012 10:05 am

Oh no! I wasn't saying that you didn't have a relationship with Him, I was saying that there is a DEEPER PLACE He is calling you to. None of us ever arrive to a place of completion until we get to heaven...we all grow from faith to faith.

Sorry for the misunderstanding. Please take my thoughts accordingly, like I said, it's not an interpretation, just thoughts...but I didn't want you to think that I was questioning your relationship with the Lord.



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Re: a man wants me!

Post by dordor on Tue Jul 03, 2012 10:27 am

no,no,no i wasn`t,the thing is i have been praying over something and i wanted to know if this was the answer to prayer i was praying concerning something in my life,i am sorry maybe i sounded rude i really didn`t mean to sound so ,so sorry for the misunderstanding. nerd

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Post by dordor on Tue Jul 03, 2012 10:36 am

since you are a moderator ,i can tell but privately what it is all about

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Re: a man wants me!

Post by dordor on Wed Jul 04, 2012 10:12 am

@cholette i am not allowed to write you a private message crying

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Post by Cholette on Wed Jul 04, 2012 3:30 pm

Yes, sorry...you have to have at least 50 posts before you can send a PM. nerd

Are you feeling as if this dream is literal?


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Post by dordor on Thu Jul 05, 2012 4:56 am

yes and no,where do i start?.i have been single since 4 yrs ,initially did not want to get married again,till God made it known to me that it is his will that i marry again.i had this guy in my church ,he is an elder at my church ,he was always looking at me at church but i always thought maybe he was looking at someone beside me so i never took it as anything and when i catch him looking at me he removes his, until one day he wrote me an sms about a programm at church.(i am a nurse by profession sometimes i don`t come to church all the time bcos of the nature of my work.so i told him i had a late shift that i will not be able to make it at the programme ,he then told that whenever i am free i should let him know.i ran away because i was so shy and kind of avoided him from then on because it not occur to me that he fancied me d and i wanted to be careful and be a bit more careful before i leap into a relationship and i felt he was also doing the same.we continued that way not proceeding more than that,till one day he called me and i was not available andhe dropped a message told he was travelling for an evangelism at a far country i wished him well.but on coming back he was assigned to pastor a church .i remember i called after he came back from his journey.i did not see him again for 2 months bcos when he will be at church i will working.so the last time i saw him he was still staring at me as always from a corner at the church ,when talking to people .the next sunday he announced that he was engaged to be married to someone who does not attend our church but a sister church.i felt a little bit dissappointed( bcos prior to this in prayer as i was praying God to concerning us what do i do ?,is it his will and so on.God told me that some people will not be happy with our relationship even though we are the body of christ bcos of our race.i am black and he is white.like always i kept on praying ,i love God so much ,i was always pursuing and seeking his face to draw more and more to him as he is all that i have).on hearing this i just turned to God pour my heart to God and then decide to forget about him.after sometime i had a visit from my pastor and my pastor took him along ,we talked a lot of deep things it was a wonderful time ,together ,i had no feelings anymore for him as i released in prayer and blessed him and his future marriage .but we had such lovely time together only for me to wake up the next day suddenly having feelings(-because i had always admired him before he approached me bcos of his love for God and within the first sms and the last i was head over heels in love with him but did not show it). for him.you see this is dangerous and i was crying to God and asking him why do i suddenly have feeling for him ,if this feeling is from God or from me ,so as i had this dream i wanted to get a meaning before i make a fool of myself.You know how stupid it will be if he introduces his fiance to the church and i will be there with a sad face or even crying.that is why i need help with this dream.


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Post by Cholette on Thu Jul 05, 2012 9:01 am

When did you have the dream? Was it before all of this happened or was it after?

Even though he's not married yet, he's technically spoken for and God is a God of order. That is why I'm asking you if you had this dream after knowing he was engaged, or before.


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Post by dordor on Thu Jul 05, 2012 10:23 am

it was after his engagement and that is why i am here asking what the dream means bcos i am worried for me.

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Post by dordor on Thu Jul 05, 2012 10:35 am

@cholete i have no intention of stealing someone`s man.the one God spoke me in prayer was before the engagement ,the dream was after the engagement ,if i had no fear of God i wont be here looking for who would help me with the dream.

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Re: a man wants me!

Post by lola21st on Thu Jul 05, 2012 1:52 pm

Hi dordor -

I'm sure that Cholette wasn't suggesting that you're attempting to "steal someone's man". Unfortunately, online based communication like this can cause miscommunications. Our approach here is to assume the best intention, not the worst in these situations....

When I first read your dream I thought that perhaps this dream could be literal or it could be an Ecc 5:3 based dream meaning that it could be reflective of what's on your heart right now concerning this gentleman.

I will say that these types of dreams are extremely difficult to interpret - what I've stated above isn't an interpretation, simply my thoughts. I am sensitive to your situation having recently reconciled with someone with whom I'd been previously involved - during our time apart he married and divorced. While he was married, I still had dreams that I didn't understand at the time but they did later manifest. The circumstances around my situation were VERY unique

I can't say one way or another whether or not this is what is happening in your case, another interpreter may receive an interpretation from the Lord regarding your dream. What I do suggest is that you continue to seek the Lord dligiently regarding this situation. Ask for additional dreams and other forms of communication so that you can know His will for you and direction in this situation. Also, please don't take any action unless you've been like Gideon and have had several confirmations that the action is a directive from the Lord. Many people have experienced embarrassment and/or damaged relationships because they've taken action based on one dream. I think what Cholette is simply saying is to tread lightly. If this dream is of the Lord, this is one piece of a larger puzzle. Wait for Him to provide you with the other pieces that will provide clarity as to what He's showing you.

Bless You

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Re: a man wants me!

Post by dordor on Fri Jul 06, 2012 7:51 am

oh yeah thank you so much,i would never ever take things in my hands God forbid!!! and i will keep seeking the lord as it is not funny at all for after moving on from him and suddenly this feelings again.please put me in your prayers.i can live with or without this guy and i just need to be in the will of God.thanks in a million ,i just needed someone who could understand me from where i am coming from.thanks once again

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