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Post by juewls davis 777 on Fri Jun 08, 2012 1:19 am

I woke up after a long tiresome dream.............I found out that my Ex husband was gay....it was a very disturbing dream. I was very angry and his father was also in the dream and very angry. We teamed together for support. In real life, within my marriage we always had a problem in the bedroom)....He never wanted to be close and said it did not feel right when we managed to get close, he used to get very depressed). I am not in love still with my ex husband, but was very angry with him in the dream, for all the years he had made me suffer. There were also two girls that had come out and declared they were also gay, I knew them in the dream, but not real life? I just remember how angry and disturbed I felt in the dream. In real life I have moved on from the marraige and do not feel anything for my ex husband? Any idea's anyone?

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Re: Ex husband found to be gay

Post by GreatFulServant on Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:21 am

Do you feel angry toward him or gay people?

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Post by juewls davis 777 on Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:32 am

My ex husband constantly annoys me, as when he visits us, our children, he is rude and does not understand that he can not just take food e.t.c. I am not angry towards Gay people.

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Post by GreatFulServant on Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:40 am

Do you think the Lord wants you to have a softer attitude toward him. Not saying you should justify his being rude or taking food. Possibly healing of some emotions still need to happen.

I am blessed that I have been married 25 plus years and do not have to deal with a situation like yours. I will pray that the situation becomes more tolerable.

Through prayer we can help people change for the better, but we do know that through the Lord we can change anything about us.

As I said I will be lifting you up in prayer.

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Post by juewls davis 777 on Sat Jun 09, 2012 1:00 am

Thank you. Yes I am sure the Lord would require me to act a little kinder towards him. It is very difficult and I have prayed to be able to do this. he is very hard work and drinks also which changes his moods. Anyway i will continue to pray and thank you for you're time and prayers.X

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Re: Ex husband found to be gay

Post by Cholette on Sat Jun 09, 2012 3:35 am

Hi Juewls,

Could this dream be literal? The implications are there because of the problems you had in real life when you were married. The feelings of anger in the dream says something as well.

The only other thought I would have is that maybe deep down you've asked yourself this question and it's coming out in your dream.

These are only thoughts so toss out anything that doesn't bear witness.

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Re: Ex husband found to be gay

Post by juewls davis 777 on Sat Jun 09, 2012 3:40 am

Well I used to wonder years ago, but I don't think about it now or over the past few years and I don't actually think he is gay. The anger is real....as I do feel a lot of anger towards him, but that is only because of his diabolical behaviour. I don't know. Thanks anyway.X

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Re: Ex husband found to be gay

Post by Chi on Sun Jun 10, 2012 12:25 pm

Hi Juewls,

When I was reading your post I had the same thoughts as Cholette, could this be literal? Your feeling in the dream of being angry makes me wonder whether this might be a revelation of your response?

These are just my thoughts.
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Post by juewls davis 777 on Sun Jun 10, 2012 12:56 pm

I don't know, it would be a shock.........! Maybe it is prophetic? Only time will tell that.X

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Re: Ex husband found to be gay

Post by Shan on Sun Jun 10, 2012 8:59 pm

Hi juewls,

I had a dream one time about one of my good friends and her husband. I knew they were having trouble in the bedroom on his part. She said he never wanted sex and this was only a couple of years into their marriage. I thought he might be gay because this happened to another friend of mine.

In my dream she kicked her husband out of the house and for some reason I showed up where he moved to and he lived with another man. Her husband turned to me and yelled, "I AM NOT GAY!" and he turned and slammed a door. I was surprised that he knew I thought that. I had no idea at the time that she had actually asked him to move out.

It turned out that he actually had a porn addiction because she caught him. She was of course very angry at him for this. So I'm wondering if in this dream your ex being gay is symbolic him of turning to another whether it be alcohol, porn or whatever and turning away from you.

These are just my thoughts though...


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