Two similar dreams about my husband, please help

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Two similar dreams about my husband, please help

Post by misschris2014 on Tue May 29, 2012 1:09 am

Hi All,

I have been using this forum and information posted to help me learn how to interpret my dreams. Recently I had a dream that shook me to the core. Could someone help me sort them out?

The first dream is as follows:

My husband and I were at church together, but he kept ignoring me. We went from place to place and he barely acknowledged my presence. For instance we went to pick up a DVD and we also we went to hang with friends and in both places I felt like I didn't belong- kind of like a 3rd wheel. then I witnessed him make a phone call to arrange a meeting with a girl. He did this right in front of my face. The girl was one that he used to date before we were married, but here he was arranging to talk to her now! I was so angry, I beat him up. I slammed his head against the wall, kicked him in his private parts, and just repeatedly hit him.

The second dream is as follows:
My husband received a phone call from a girl that he knew from the past. I heard part of the conversation because I had picked up the phone downstairs. After a while, he suspected that I picked it up and they hung up. I went upstairs with him, and the phone rang and he refused to pick it up, so I did. The girl didn't answer at first. When she finally did, she gave me a fake name (even though I knew what her name was). I finally said, look, I know this is Valencia. I basically made clear to her, that my husband was mine and she needed to back off. But then afterwards, I was kind to her. She came over my house and had a sandwich. The girl was only 16, and very immature. It seemed to me that when he was calling her, he wasn't cheating with her, but he was entertaining the idea.

A few notes:
1. I have been married for a little over 2 years. My husband and I are both Christians. He has never cheated.
2. I thought it was extremely strange that in the second dream, after I yelled at Valencia, I became nice to her.
3. To my knowledge, neither one of us know anyone named Valencia.

Any thoughts that you have are greatly appreciated!! God bless.

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Re: Two similar dreams about my husband, please help

Post by BelovedoftheLord on Fri Jun 01, 2012 2:34 am

Search for Daphne s thread on cheating dreams, maybe it will help answer your questions!

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Re: Two similar dreams about my husband, please help

Post by L4JC on Fri Jun 01, 2012 7:17 am

Hi Miss Chris,

Before I share my thoughts (not interpretation), I'd like to ask you if you and your husband have been getting along well before you had this dream? Has he been giving you wifely attention as you'd like?

The reason I asked this is because I've had dreams in the past of my husband cheating, too. And I know he's not a cheater, but I knew the dream was significant, because I sensed it was more about "me" than it was about what he was doing in the dream. Let me explain. Before I had the dreams of my husband cheating... I was feeling a little I guess well, not as "appreciated" as I usually am. So, when the dreams came, that to me tells me that I'm feeling insecure and need to address that with the Lord and with my husband. Once I prayed about it and let my husband know, he made extra effort to show his love towards me. Once I did this, the cheating dreams stopped.

This may not resonate to what you're feeling, and if not, please feel free to toss it.

Thought I'd share anyway! :)

Sunny




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Thank you!

Post by misschris2014 on Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:46 pm

Hi guys,

Thank you so much for replying! I love how this place is a community where people help each other out! I did read the post by Daphne as you suggested and it was very helpful! It kept me from going crazy with paranoia! Also, to answer the second post, I do sometimes feel neglected. we got into a big fight about it a few weeks ago in fact. So that could very well be what is causing the dreams.

For a while I thought the dreams could be about pornography. For a few months at the beginning of our marriage, he struggled with viewing porn but the Lord delivered him, and I believe the Spirit confirmed that he will not fall to that particular sin again. So I thought the dream meant to pray for him because he was entertaining thoughts of looking at pornography (get it? Making arrangements to see an old girlfriend?) I asked him if he had been entertaining such thoughts, and he said no. But he would say that wouldn't he?
But honestly the jealously thing makes sense too, because I do feel insecure when he doesn't spend time with me.

In any case I am spending time in prayer about both issues. I prayed that his strength would not fail concerning porn. I also prayed that God would reveal in a concrete and unmistakable way if this is an issue. I will also pray about my insecurity issues, because I don't want my marriage to be affected negatively by my jealousy.

I am thankful for the insight from you both!

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