Being raped at Former Sr. Pastor's house?

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Being raped at Former Sr. Pastor's house?

Post by Destine on Tue Jan 31, 2012 11:02 am

I'm at my former Sr. Pastor's house, talking with his older son, and with one of his friends, (T, the pastor's son) leaves the room, Leaving me with his friend. At first, everything is fine, we are just listening to music and having a good time. The guy starts to touch my hair, I decline his offer to sleep with him, But he doesn't take no for an answer. T's dad, walks in after hearing me scream, He starts yelling at him, pulls him off of me, And takes him outside to their family room. T comes in, and holds me and tells me everything is going to be OK, Though I'm crying.. I try to believe.

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Re: Being raped at Former Sr. Pastor's house?

Post by GreatFulServant on Wed Feb 01, 2012 12:22 pm

Rape happens when a person is over powered against their will, and is one of the most dehumanizing acts. In the bible when it talks of sexual acts, adultery, fornication, and whoredoms it has a spiritual meaning to it. You could do a word search on those words and confirm that at http://www.biblegateway.com/keyword/and the book of Hosea speaks much about whoredoms . Which interestingly enough I just listened to on an Mp3. With that being said do you feel like someone was is trying to manipulate you into doing things against the Word of God i.e. your pastors teachings? Or maybe this person also back slid (and it hurt you) and has appeared to straightened up and come back to the Lord and you are having a difficult time trusting them. I say that with T coming back to you and trying to comfort you.

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Re: Being raped at Former Sr. Pastor's house?

Post by Destine on Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:24 pm

I feel like a pastor's wife is trying to manipulate my mom.. she did 't have Intimate conversations with her for no the, She allowed her kids to make accusations against my mom through manipulation

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Post by Dove-Solutions on Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:45 pm

I am not sure on this but I believe rape would indicate a violation of some type. So my question is: Do you feel violated by this person?


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Post by GreatFulServant on Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:55 pm

Are you able to help your mom through this situation to see what is happening?

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Re: Being raped at Former Sr. Pastor's house?

Post by Destine on Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:06 pm

No.. she won't tell me

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