Well you guys have called it!
What has been done in the dark (as the bible says) has definitely come to light! What has been covered has been uncovered--through my dreams and confirmation from others (in this case--an unexpected source!!)
Luke 12:2 (New International Version)


2There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known.





First of all, let me say, I hope that you guys had a blessed TURKEY DAY with good eating and even better fellowship!! (I KNOW I DID!!!!lol) I apologize for not being on line as much (work really has me more busy than usual)...Continue to pray my strength in the Lord)

I found out this past Thanksgiving that MY EX IS IN A CONTROLLING MARRIAGE! I also found out that my ex has indeed moved and he now lives just a couple of hours away from my parents (as evidence in past dreams where he was "moving" going "NORTH". He lives north of the state and the "baby" being a couple of months old.)

In my dreams, I always dreamt of my ex being in certain places and his wife not being far behind him (she was always looking back at me in suspicion as if to say, "you better not talk to him", etc. It was like she was guarding his view from not just me but certain things (ie: keeping him from being himself/having fun). In one dream, that DAPHANIE interpreted so correctly (remember Daph?), I was in a big van with my ex and his parents (they were happy in conversation but I was feeling uncomfortable (which in real life at the time I was feeling uncomfortable seeing his family--I felt they were trying to "be fake" so to speak)...Also in the dream, I remember pulling up to this house (I assumed my ex's house) and his wife was standing on the porch (with arms folded) looking to see who was riding in the vehicle--she looked skeptical and suspicious (UNA you called it right)...she wasn't invited in the car but I was invited in the house (she just came in wondering why I was there). Remember how she would keep coming into the room where my ex was and "observing"? She said 'hello' to me (and Una you said that she could be wondering what my ex's feelings are for me) and I felt "uncomfortable" as my ex was in my view trying to "get my attention". In real life, his parents accept me more than his now wife (which I am shocked!) No wonder they would be so glad to see me when they would see me around town!

My ex's wife won't even let him talk to other women (my ex in real life was a "social butterfly" and he was comfortable around women--no big deal right?! It wasn't a problem for me but it was evidence in my dreams that when his wife would come around she would TOTALLY keep him from talking to any one!!) No wonder my ex said that he "missed my family" and would try to "sneak" to talk to them and keep in touch--he's totally on LOCK DOWN!!!Lol...not only that, but he's constantly stuck with the baby and can't even listen to the radio with his significant other because she doesn't like that! (This may not be a big deal for some but it is for me because this is something that I and my ex enjoyed doing--listening to music all the time!!)

I say all this to say that I always wanted to know what was REALLY going on behind closed doors. There was a lot of unanswered questions--and now I know!!! Just like the widow with the unrighteous judge, God has granted me my justice!!! He has allowed me to observe with my own eyes the fall of the wicked (as the word says)...not saying my ex was wicked but at the time he didn't have pure motives! God has allowed his foot to slip and calamity to come upon him quickly!
Deuteronomy 32:35 (New International Version)


35 It is mine to avenge; I will repay.
In due time their foot will slip;
their day of disaster is near
and their doom rushes upon them."




When I would try to "pursue peace with my ex" I was offended that he didn't try to make amends or say something to let me know all was well--and NOW I know why--because HE COULDN'T! His wife won't let him!!! And I can't say that I'm not surprised--you reap what you sow!! Just like the feelings in my last dream I posted, I had so much relief when I found out the truth. All I can say is WOW!!!

Okay, I'm gonna quit rambling on, but I appreciate all the prayers and all the encouragement concerning this manner. Now I know why my ex is unhappy and now I have received the vengence and understanding of the situation that I've ALWAYS wanted since the breakup! If this isn't a lesson to appreciate the good that you have--I don't know what is!!!??? I've been sitting on cloud-9 ALL week because of this news---I finally have peace...everythings coming together!!! PRAISE GOD ALMIGHTY!!! I am SO glad that things are made known--my dreams weren't nonsense!!!!

Be blessed and I love you all greatly
desiree (aka Starpop)

Desiree -

Praise God that you received the revelation and confirmation! As it says in Galatians 6, "7 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. 8 For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life."

Will pm you...

Blessings,

Lurdys

Also one one of my favorite scriptures!!!lol..I'm reaping the benefits of being obediant to God now--I have so much peace!!! whew!!lol

thanks for your response Hun! The feelings of relief and contentment are undescribable right now! thanks as always

desiree

p.s. What's pm?lol

private message...just sent one...

DUH!!!Lol ....I got it! Thanks!

I think you need to forgive your ex for whatever happened in your relationship. You are right, God said, "Vengeance is Mine." He didn't mean for you to be overjoyed in someone else's pain.

Proverbs 24:17-18 "Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth, Lest the Lord see it, and it displease Him, and He turn away His wrath from Him."

Proverbs 24:17-18 "Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth, Lest the Lord see it, and it displease Him, and He turn away His wrath from Him."

you're right about that scripture!!...I have LONG forgiven my ex that's why I can boldly say what I say with joy that GOD HAS MY BACK NOMATTER WHAT!

I pray for my ex and his happiness and true salvation always (which I didn't mention in the above post) I'm not joyous in his pain...just wanted all to know just how God is true to his word and HE never forgets his promises--I'm joyous in that! God ALSO says that he will "fill our mouth with laughter and our lips with shouts of joy" (Job 8:21) and I also came out of the situation with my ex better than before "rejoicing and with shouts of joy (Psalm 105:43) because I was restored. The bible says, ..."when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy" (Proverbs 11:10); Finally God says that we (ie: the righteous) will "observe with our own eyes the fall/punishment of the wicked" (paraphrase) (Psalm 91:8)...Not saying my ex was EVIL but anything not in righteousness is wicked (ie: unholy); he had unpure motives (God looks at the heart)! Job says those who "plow evil and sow trouble reap it" (Job 4:8) and THAT is what happened my friend!

thanks for your post
desiree

It's been a while since you first posted this. What you say may be true...now. Initially, I think it was more than that. But, I'm so glad you have the peace you were looking for. That is truly a blessing.

thanks Virtuous.
I am glad that I have peace too!!!
smooches
desiree

I still hope one day if the Lord makes it possible to go to my ex and ask for forgiveness. I've tried 5 times but it hasn't happend, only God knows why! For now I have peace and joy knowing that I have truly forgiven him in my heart.

Amen!! me too I over the X infact he has remarried and moved on and we ended on good terms. So forgiveness is required to move on the next step.

Yes you are true Lovetoworshipjesus...it is crucial to forgive so that "doors can be open" and God can move like only he can!

Chica4Christ:
Even though I've asked for forgiveness and have forgiven him in my heart, I would like to see him in person too to let "bygones be bygones" and have that final peace/closure that's needed! I know God will make a way for you too to make amends with the ex all the while, while you're self-healing in the process!

God bless you both!
smooches
desiree

I hope this happens for me as well with my ex, who is also the father of my 2 year old.

I'm claiming that in the months and years to come that there WILL be some reconciliation going on!!! God is all about that!!

I certainly hope so.

AMEN!!!!!