I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

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I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Cloud on Thu Dec 15, 2011 12:52 pm

i dreamt that i was in my house taking a shower and it was like i was in preparation for something


my ex was there in my house and i felt like i was already married to her or going to be


my mother kept following me around and showing me 4 grape seeds in her hand


i kept feeling threatened by her and was trying to get her away from me


i was ANGRY even


then eventually, my Ex left


when she left, i actually FELT like i had ruined something


in real life, my ex ended up dating and marrying someone else


scratching chin


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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Daisy on Thu Dec 15, 2011 4:36 pm

Hi Cloud~

I don't have an interp for you, but this scripture comes to mind for you. It goes along with my most previous post before this one.

Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.


No matter what was suppose to happen...God is much bigger than this and factors in our imperfections into His plans before the foundations of the world!

Ephesians 1:4According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:5Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,6To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved.


Ephesians 2:8,9 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.

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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Cloud on Thu Dec 15, 2011 4:48 pm

i've posted this dream before many times but i'm just now suggesting that maybe it was literally about Marrying my EX Girlfriend which i WANTED to do after coming back from the Air Force in 2007.


i wanted to give it another try and date her again but she wasn't into it at the time nor did she ever come around.


it all depends on what my Mom and the 4 Grape Seeds were symbollic of.


the Shower, my "Mother", and the 4 Grape Seeds were all symbollic of SOMETHING God is/was trying to do in me but i resisted.


keep in my mind i was still very much "addicted" to/or just viewing pornography then.


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Post by Daisy on Thu Dec 15, 2011 4:53 pm

Well, in your waking life, what makes you as angry as your mom made you feel in the dream when she was chasing you around with the grape seeds?

No matter what these things symbolize, its never too late for God to redeem the mistakes of the past.


Ephesians 2:8,9 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.

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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Cloud on Thu Dec 15, 2011 4:59 pm

Well, in your waking life, what makes you as angry as your mom made you feel in the dream when she was chasing you around with the grape seeds?


that's a good question...my DAD has really made me angry so much over the years and even up to a few days ago.


but i don't see how my MOM symbollizes my dad...


if anything...my Mom and the 4 Grape Seeds had to do with either my need to get a JOB/Career OR just STOPPING porn or BOTH


which is STILL my question today for God to answer me.



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Post by Daisy on Thu Dec 15, 2011 5:18 pm

Cloud I think you know from all your posts that God wants you to get victory and breakthrough over BOTH these areas. These are my thoughts about your mom symbolizing your dad, I do think its possible. When two get married...they do become one. So in my mind, it would be easy for her to symbolize your dad. Im not saying though this is the case here. Just pray on it. I think your feelings in your dream will give you the best clues as to what this dream is truly about (and who symbolizes what), bc they will mimic your waking life emotions.

I dont know much about grape seeds, but I do know that seeds take a lot of time to grow, and a lot of time to bring forth fruit. Sometimes things in our life take much longer to bring forth fruit than we would like (sometimes we may become impatient, or angry in the process). God works it all out for good though. All our experiences do end up making us who we are along the way, the good, the bad and indifferent! Do you think the seeds were good seeds or negative ones? If they were good I would think they would represent future fruitfulness. If you think negative ones, it could be seeds of bitterness that need to be let go of possibly.

Just my thoughts, not an interpretation....


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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Cloud on Thu Dec 15, 2011 8:35 pm

I didn't feel as if the seeds were bad, no.


But my mom just kept coming after me and it was bothersome.


I just don't like the feeling that I HAVE to try and muster up the strength to become a "working successful person" when I don't even have a social life...no friends...no nothing.


I CAN'T do it this way.


That's not my personality.


According to my Mel Gibson/Airplane dream, it's NOT what I do in the natural that will draw someone to me anyway.








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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Shan on Thu Dec 15, 2011 10:22 pm

Hey Cloud,

Since you said there were no negative feelings regarding the seeds, could it be that your mom/dad sees at least 4 things in you that have the potential to bear fruit? She is following you around with them...hmmm... Mom's have a way of being persistent, especially when they don't want us to give up. Are you pushing any encouragement away? I know when I have felt defeated in my life, that I wasn't one to just jump up and down when I heard encouragement. Sometimes even resisting it, like defeat had some kind of hold on me.

These are just my thoughts...

Also, I feel I need to tell you that when I felt defeated, it had to do with a guy that I thought I was supposed to marry. Eventually he ended up rejecting me and married someone else. What could I do? I felt hopeless. I asked and asked God WHY??? I heard nothing for a long time. Well, I got much better. My heart and spirit had been healed and restored. Not only restored, but better that I had ever been! Once healing had taken place, I asked God once more just to settle in my mind, to make sense of it. I KNEW I had a promise from the Lord regarding my being married. Did it negate the promise because he got married? NO! A MILLION TIMES, NO! Anyway, the Lord simply said, "He had a choice." Yes, he did have a choice. God is not going to override our free will. I KNOW my promise is coming. That is one thing that God is faithful to deliver on-- His PROMISES! I don't know if you have a specific promise or not, but I say this because it is not worth it to stay in the past and reflect on missed opportunities. There is no life or fruit in that. Look forward to the "girl of your dreams," literally and figuratively.

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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Cloud on Fri Dec 16, 2011 1:35 pm

Yeah don't worry I'm NOT fretting over it.


I'm just surprised by it.


The Number 4 is MY number that God has applied to my life.


It means "Creative Work" but to WHAT extent is this "Creative Work"?


I don't know.



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Re: I was supposed to Marry my Ex?

Post by Daisy on Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:34 pm

Great post Shan!!! :hooray:


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