Missing Grocery Cart and The Chance With the Ex

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Missing Grocery Cart and The Chance With the Ex

Post by TheWhiteShadow on Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:53 am

Good Morning, all -

I had two dreams last night. I'm not thinking that they're related, but maybe they are. I have had about a week where I didn't remember my dreams, so I asked God last night for one - and I got two. :)

In the first dream, I was at a grocery store. I made my way through, placing items in the cart as I went. I reached the front of the store to check out, and there were many waiting in line. I heard a familiar voice while I waited, and proceeded to approach the woman to greet her, as she was someone I worked with in the past. After we met, it was my turn to check out, but when I walked back to my cart...it was gone. I looked all around at other shoppers' carts, but no one had my cart. The dream ended with me not looking forward to starting over.

In the 2nd dream, I was at my parents' house and many relatives were over. I had gotten a call on my cell phone from my ex-girlfriend from many years ago. I moved from room-to-room, looking for a place where we could speak without distraction, but each room had someone in it. At one point, I saw my old bedroom with some unknown kids in it, and it was a dirty and messy, with torn carpet and missing furniture. Each time I we would begin to speak, I was unsure if she was still on the line, but then she'd say something and I'd know she was still there. We didn't even begin to talk about anything, and I was frustrated that I could not find a place to speak to her in private.

The call ended when she suddenly appeared in person, walking down the stairs to where I was in the basement. Inside, I was delighted to see her. She was escorted by her mother. Now, what we were going to talk about: while I was on the phone, I knew that she wasn't with her husband anymore. I didn't know why, and I wanted to ask her if they were divorced. I needed to find out what happened before I could seek a relationship with her, again. So, in person, her mother pointed out that this girl had three kids...in a "Are you sure about this?" kind of way. The dream ended with her and I about to leave the house to go for a walk together and talk.

In real life, she's happily married, and we do not ever see each other - nor would I ever want a relationship with her at this point in our lives. However, she has always represented the greatest relationship I've ever had; no relationship has ever come close to when we were together.

Please share your thoughts on either dream with me.
Thanks,
-Mark

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Post by Daisy on Sat Dec 10, 2011 6:39 pm

Hi Mark...Was there a sense of comfort in this past relationship? If so, in your waking life do you ever have a feeling of dread of 'starting over' in a new relationship with someone, having to start from square one? Just some thoughts...I could be totally off.


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Post by TheWhiteShadow on Sat Dec 10, 2011 7:08 pm

Hiya, Daisy -

There was comfort in this relationship. She was, hands-down, the most awesome person I've ever known. Spiritually very strong, very kind and loving, and I learned so much from her. To be honest, the reason I broke up with her was because all of our friends were getting married, and the pressure to do so was just too much for me at the time. It's taken a long time to get over that choice. I'd eventually felt that I threw away my best, if you know what I mean.

So, for your second question...yeah, I hate the thought of starting over, anymore. I had dated since her, some long-term, but what I'm looking for simply hasn't been found in anyone else from a potential mate standpoint. So, most of the time, I've chosen to accept the single life because in many ways it just appears to be better to me. But, I find that I can't always keep that idea...solid? I hope that makes sense.

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Post by Daisy on Sat Dec 10, 2011 7:30 pm

I totally know what you mean. Everything that you posted makes total and complete sense. In your second dream, the part with the 3 kids and committing to such a task...was there any dread or doubt that it was what you wanted to do?


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Post by TheWhiteShadow on Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:01 pm

No, I didn't have any dread or doubt. I was like I acknowledged what that might mean, that it'd have it's own struggles to overcome. The thought of having that 2nd chance right in front of me was greater than the possible struggles that would come along with it.

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Post by Daisy on Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:33 pm

Amen! My thoughts are this is prophetic of your next relationship. Your ex sounds like a wonderful woman of God. Though you both have moved on, I believe God will bring that 2nd chance your way. The right woman will come into your path that will be worth every possible struggle that may come your way with it. I believe there wont be a hesitation of your desire to commit to this, and that the timing will be perfect with the right one for you. Just my thoughts...


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Post by TheWhiteShadow on Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:39 pm

I had to "like" your post, because it's exactly the way I would want things to be should such an opportunity ever come my way.

Right before I read it I was going about doing some stuff around the house, and I suddenly saw the connection between the two dreams...that the first one really is about starting over. I hadn't considered that it could be a relationship.

Thanks for your help, Daisy.
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Post by Daisy on Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:43 pm

Yay, so glad to help! :praiseg-d: Bless You


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