REPOST~Pretend Queen 4 the day!

I had a dream that some of us were traveling to magical lands. We were traveling in kind of a time traveling thing.Whoever was in charge wanted me to pretend I was a queen for the day. I asked them 'The people in the land are going to ask me what land I am the queen of...and its simply not true. What am I suppose to say?' I was uneasy about making up a story, they decided to send someone else with me, that was comfortable making up a story. Everyone was dressed really weird, like in renaissance clothing. I remember people sitting by the pool or pond, there was a hand sticking out of the pond holding an horderve', someone said 'o thats my mom, she is the server today.' She was under the water but the hand was sticking out...and her hand was painted to look like it went with the pond~kind of a mud color. I remember thinking that she must have a straw to breath under the water!

Aside from the comical aspect, has someone asked you to do something that you are simply not comfortable with?

The only thing I can think of that I was uncomfortable with is doing the dinner thing with the other moms. These dreams were pretty close together...within a week or two I think. I didn't feel like anyone at the dinner gathering was asking me lie or to do anything against my beliefs though...so I am not sure if this would be a fit or not. Though, the horderve' thing and the waitress stands out.

When the dinner gathering came about I did end up feeling surprisingly comfortable at dinner, and didn't feel like I had to be someone other than myself...and like I said in my other post, I did have a really good time. They seem like really great people to be around.

Do you think that was it? does it really click for you?

It very well could be. I think that's part of the reason I was so resistant to go out with all of them, I was wondering about how uncomfortable I would feel about being myself around a big group that I don't really know well. I was surprised at how comfortable I was being myself, and how natural the conversations flowed. Here is a thought though, one of my friends that I do know better than the rest rode with me that night. It helped me to feel a bit more comfortable, not so out of place (for example: the renaissance clothing... ) The only thing that doesn't fit i guess is that nobody asked me, or pressured me to do anything that I believe in morally. (I did voice at another time when I was invited by another mom to go out dancing, that I don't drink.) Maybe my sub-consious was worried I would feel pressure to drink~when in fact there was not one bit of pressure.

Does your friend who rode with you have slightly looser standards than you?

Yes, but is a very good person...I believe God is going to draw her to a higher level in him. She is very drawn to me...and puts a lot of effort into being a part of my life. She is a good friend.

Sounds like a perfect fit to me. =)

Me 2! Thanks so much for helping me figure it out!!!!