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Post by Blue101 on Wed Feb 16, 2011 11:41 am

Hi family,

I am writing because a friend of mine, whom I had a romantic interest in and have developed feelings for, recently confessed to me that basically while he was getting close to me, he was being sexually inappropriate with another woman.

My heart dropped disappointed Even though we were not together, it still really hurt and felt like an affair of some sort. My heart is really hurting. I truly trusted this brother and was emotionally vulnerable with him as well. I was honest with him, why wasn't he honest with me. Im upset at myself for even letting him in. Just in need of prayers and encouragement.

Thanks guys

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Re: feel betrayed

Post by unaday* on Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:00 pm

Will pray for you!

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Post by GoldenEagle on Sun Feb 20, 2011 6:45 am

It's better that you know than to be ignoarnt, painful as it may be. So sorry, hun.

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Post by Dove-Solutions on Sun Feb 20, 2011 7:17 am

crying praying praying praying


~Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Himand He will direct your path.~ Proverbs 3:5-6

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Post by Cholette on Sun Feb 20, 2011 7:32 am

I would like to flip this so you can see it from a different perspective Blue101. God protected you and spared you from another level of healing. What I mean by that is...you could have gotten into a relationship with this person and became so in love and then this could have happened to you. If you've ever been cheated on in the past, like I have, it's one of the most PAINFUL processes a person can go through. Even though it hurts now...think of what God spared you from if the relationship would have gone deeper.

His "inappropriateness" just shows that he's possibly not where you are in your relationship with God. This is not to judge him, but the Bible says that a man is known by the fruit that he bears (Matthew 7:20). So don't see this as rejection...see this as God's love FOR YOU!!! He loved you so much that he allowed this to happen to show you that this guy may not be GOD'S BEST for you.

I'm praying with you!!


Do not fight FOR victory, but fight FROM THE PLACE of victory. Jesus has ALREADY won the battle!

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Re: feel betrayed

Post by James Gerald on Sun Feb 20, 2011 7:44 am

Just rember, HE LOVES YOU! HE WONT LET YOU DOWN! HE WILL FIX IT!
HE WILL BRING THE RIGHT MAN FOR YOU! GO BLESS YOU!

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