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Post by SisterinChrist on Fri Jan 07, 2011 11:11 am

had a drm. i was getting married..but nothing seemed prepared..
the hall was not ready,,they showed me where ithe brides get ready..its ok :hmm: like a bathroom area..

i am waiting for my makeup person... i see my best freind (irl she got married an moved to diff state) she's has to go out to get ready.. an leaves.

im like where's my make up lady :hmm: :hairraising:
i say ok im going out to get my makeup done.. go into a place.. a lady is waiting on 2 othr girls b4 me. im like agh! pls.

the othr guy in an area near this section is too expensive.. im like no it's too much...

thats all i remembr..
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yea i've been praying for Lordy about me finding my soulmate
sigh

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Post by dreamster on Fri Jan 07, 2011 1:58 pm

lol! flower ok im bein serious,, ,,well i think lordy is werkin on U,,hes herd ur prayers,, thers probly sum bathroom time 4 u first ,, lol! ,, but thers hold up,, a prep tme wiv ur make up,, a waitg tme,, ,,, think of esta,,she had 12 monmths of prep time ,, then was D ,, um im busy rite now,, lol!

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Post by SisterinChrist on Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:40 pm

wow thank u
yea i figured had somethng to do w/not time right now..


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Post by dreamster on Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:50 pm

flower ok so now u kno wats goin on ,,

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by SisterinChrist on Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:51 pm

i guess.. disappointed

i wonder if the make up lady that had 2 othr ppl to take care o meant anything

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Post by dreamster on Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:59 pm

i guess sumthang,,

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by lola21st on Sun Jan 09, 2011 12:59 am

Hi SisterinChrist!

I agree with Dreamster, I think your dream is showing you that it's not time yet. The key parts of the wedding weren't ready but I think it might be more a 'managing the process' issue. What I mean is that when we think about weddings (and marriages) we first think about the ceremony and the party and the rings and the gown and the cake and the people, i.e., the memorable and fun aspects, but we don't think about the more tedious (behind the scenes) aspects of the wedding (the planning, the follow up, the payments, holding the vendors accountable, etc.). If this part isn't completed, the 'fun' part won't occur smoothly if at all as is the case in your dream.

Maybe what your dream is telling you is not to focus so much on marriage itself but on the things that should be in place before a marriage can happen. so that it will be a successful and fulfilling marriage. God will show you what those things are if He hasn't already. flower Bless You

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by SisterinChrist on Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:31 am

huggins hi lola, happy dance thank u !!!
Yes i thnk ur right...

i thnk u hit the nail in the head... i feel like that is what He has been trying to tell me thinking idea guess Lord will send me the soulmate when the time is right... Daph\\'s Dreams dreamster things need to fall into place first etc..

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Post by dreamster on Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:02 pm

flower ohh i love agreement.. lol! ,,sum grt pratical points ther lurds ,,D

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Post by lola21st on Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:37 pm

you\\'re welcome! :praiseg-d:

Thanks D!

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by redeeminglove on Mon Jan 10, 2011 7:45 pm

SisterinChrist-

I had to literally laugh out loud at this one!!

I've dreamt this same dream. I did not have a dress. My uncle was not there to walk me down the aisle. I locked myself in a room and screamed, "I'M NOT READY, I'M NOT READY!!" and then woke up to, "I will dance with Cinderella" by Steven Curtis Chapman stuck in my head.

In a nutshell, you or the person you represent are not ready to be married yet. :)

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by SisterinChrist on Sun Jan 23, 2011 10:51 am

lol! laugh i know it's funny
i had anothr drm about not being ready..

yes not ready yet.. whistle

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by Godchick on Sun Jan 23, 2011 6:22 pm

Hey Sister,

Funny, one of my friends, had a dream about not being ready to get married. she dreamed this before her boyfriend proposed to her 6 months later.

She then had another dream. that her beautiful engagement ring broke. her mother in the dream said "it can be fixed." the engagement ring broke in her home state, in her mother's house.

well, about three months later, she flew to my state, where she grew up, i hosted her bridal shower, and she had her engagement party. the next day, guess what happened.... she broke off the engagement!!! at her mother's house! they both flew back to where they were studying, and now that about 3 months had past, they are rebuilding the relationship, although, she is getting councelling and help, as she is not emotionally ready to commit to this (wonderful) man of God, yet.

my point? HEED THE LORD'S WARNING. She had a dream she was not ready and ignored it - it was a dream about her make up and hair not being ready either. If she had listened to God, she possibly could have avoided all the incredible fuss that was made. time, effort and money. If we are not ready, we are not ready, and the message of the dream is, make sure, before any commitment presents itself, that you are READY in every way you can be. It may save a lot of heart ache down the road...

blessings :)

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Re: gettin married... not ready

Post by SisterinChrist on Sun Jan 23, 2011 8:14 pm

wave Godchick, thanks for ur post.. this is really good to knw.
I hd another drm where my frnd had 2do my hair and i didnt have my makeup / hair person..and it was frustrating..! bandaid

wow this is good to know. i dnt need anymore heartache praying


thanks so much for sharing this praiseGod oldguy
it really ministerd to me
big hug 2 Bless You

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Post by Godchick on Sun Jan 23, 2011 8:21 pm

you\\'re welcome!

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