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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:20 am

Me and a friend where in this bridal shop and we both purchased a wedding gown using the same credit card that didn't belong to either of us. When we got back to our families they are all upset and were trying to rectify the situation for her. They were calling around trying to find out how they could return the dress without her getting in trouble. They were so angry at her and really fussing her out.

I kept telling them that I used the same method to purchase my dress and one person said "no, you're fine". After I listened to them tell my friend about all the reprecussion she was going to face I got scared and asked them if they would help me return my dress too. They kept trying to assure me that my dress was fine but because I insisted they tried to help me return it.

I remember one person saying "there's no way you can return that dress because you don't have the right credit card and ID". So after I sat in there a while I realized their was no way to return the dress.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:21 am

Whenever I try to help interpret a dream my first question is:

Is there anything in your current life that you are facing that feels EXACTLY like this?


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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:47 am

no, not at all something I would do. nerd I'm not even engaged

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:49 am

I'm sorry. I mean the feelings in the dream, not the actions.


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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 9:56 am

I had this dream the day after running into a really good friend of mine who I have suspected is upset with me but she won't say. We ran into each other at a shoe store. She was very polite and engaged in light conversation but I can tell that she was almost trying to avoid me.

I know when she's upset with me about something she cuts communication with me (we usually talk all day via email or text otherwise).

I'm not sure if this has anything to do with my dream but I felt a little hurt by her distance. I don't know...I don't see how that really ties into the dream. Can you? or is it something else completely?

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 10:00 am

Was it the same friend from the dream?


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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 10:02 am

What I felt when I read this dream was you did something that you cannot undo and you really want to fix it, and it's related to this friend.



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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 10:13 am

Thnks Mia. I thinks that's about right. I'm not really sure what I did but you're right. I would really like to fix it. I really value her friendship.

She's the kind of person that will wait for months to finally say what's bothering her. I'm not sure there's a real solution to this right now.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 11:35 am

The key words in this dream: I really wanted to take it back. which I take to mean whatever it is that you did that you don't know that you did.


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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 11:42 am

I'm sorry for being a little slow in my thought process today Mia.

I understand and receive your suggestion of the key words. I just don't know what to take back or am I missing your point? Again, I'm a little off in my mind today. My apologies.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 11:55 am

You bought a dress together with someone else's credit card If you did it knowingly you did something wrong. If you didn't do it knowing it in the dream, you did something that you didn't realize that you did.

You want to return the dress (aka take back)

Wanting to return the dress symbolizes you wanting to undo whatever you did = as in I take it back

But everyone is telling you you are fine you didn't do anything wrong

This could be you telling yourself this or other people telling you this.

You can't take it back because you don't have ID

You can't fix this because she won't genuinely talk to you.

But the people in the dream are telling you, no-no you did nothing wrong. But you are becoming increasingly convinced that you did do something wrong. You are insisting that there is a problem that needs to be solved. They are saying, there is no problem.

You realize you can't return the dress. If it were about a dress of course you could. What you can't do is undo this thing until she's ready to let you.

Seeing that the first part is about her taking flack from her family, could it be that what is wrong with her is that they are giving her trouble?


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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:06 pm

idea Ok, now I got it! happy dance

rofl I would be embarrassed that you had to break down like that but I'm humble enough to accept that I wasn't getting it and I know that you're loving enough to be patient with me.

Thanks,
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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:08 pm

oh, and you're right!! After I saw her I spent the rest of the day trying to convince myself that I did nothing wrong but my spirit knows that there an offense there.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:10 pm

Janise,

I could do alot better at communicating so please don't be embarassed. I'm glad that I broke down so that everyone can understand it. And I pray that she learns to be better at relationships by communicating and healing instead of holding onto issues that should be dead and buried.

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Post by jjp708 on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:44 pm

thanks Mia thumbs

I'm going to pray for the both of us and let God have his perfect work! praying


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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:49 pm

Amen.

Lord, please help my sisters. You know what each of them needs and we know your perfect will is unity with love. We know you care about this situation Father and we thank you in advance for Your divine intervention.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:54 pm

Could the problems she's having with you be related to her marriage? Since this is a wedding dress?


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Post by jjp708 on Tue Oct 26, 2010 12:31 pm

No neither of us are married. We both have a desire to be married though. We used to talk about it quite often. We both were in relationships at that time.

As I'm thinking of our last communication, the guy she was dating had just told her that they would be nothing more than what they were and she told me that she wanted to be reckless in her behavior. I then told her that I wasn't going to help her do something that was going to make feel bad about herself and have to repent the next day. That's the last time we really talked.

Maybe she's upset that I wasn't there for her but I couldn't support her wanting to go out and do reckless things because she's hurting. I did offer to go over and sit with her to which she declined and found another friend to hang out with that would accomodate that behavior.

I guess I feel like I should have insisted that she allow me to come over and sit with her.

I don't know what to make of the wedding dresses.




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Post by Mia Sherwood on Tue Oct 26, 2010 12:33 pm

That makes complete sense because it was a wedding dress.... which means she isn't married but it was about a relationship prior to marriage (wedding dress) and something that you had to do with.

I'm thinking this is it.


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Post by jjp708 on Tue Oct 26, 2010 12:44 pm

I'm thinking that it to but Mia, I just couldn't go out and watch her get drunk or do something that was going to make her feel horrible the next day.

Besides, if I did she would have gotten mad at me for not talking her out of it laugh . I'm serious! Sometimes, she blames me for things going wrong in her life, no matter how i respond.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Tue Oct 26, 2010 12:47 pm

duh Sounds exhausting.


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Post by jjp708 on Tue Oct 26, 2010 12:52 pm

It is honestly. And maybe the dream was showing that there was no way to take my actions back and there is no fixing this and just leave well enough alone.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Tue Oct 26, 2010 1:03 pm

Even more importantly, you did the right thing, so you can't be sorry for that.


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Post by jjp708 on Tue Oct 26, 2010 1:38 pm

That makes me feel better Mia, thanks for ministering to me.

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Post by Mia Sherwood on Tue Oct 26, 2010 1:42 pm

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