Registering my new car

Hello, I am having some reservations about registering my new car in both my and my husbands names.
Most of the money came from my parents to buy it in addition to my student loan money. If anyone has any wisdome from God here please share. I want to do the right thing. I am having some trust issues with my husband.Thanks.

The reservation that you are experiencing IS wisdom. I love the scripture that I've used here a couple of times on this site.

And let the peace (soul harmony which comes) from Christ rule (act as umpire continually) in your hearts [deciding and settling with finality all questions that arise in your minds, in that peaceful state] to which as [members of Christ's] one body you were also called [to live]. And be thankful (appreciative), [giving praise to God always]. Colossians 3:15

In other words, the peace or lack thereof, is your guide. It will lead you to make the right decision. If there is no peace about putting his name on the car than don't do it. There's nothing that says that if you don't, you are disrespecting him. If you don't bring it up (the registration process) then he won't even pay attention if you put him on there or not.

Just my opinion...

i agree wiv cholette...wisdombaby,, i dont think i kooda said it any betta,, D

Well Justblueskies it seems that you have made up your mind prior to posting your original question, I believe God has given you an answer however you do what YOU FEEL is best...that's all I can say about this situation...be blessed!

um im not moved,,i know wat ur sayin beany ,,but i think shes feeling that way abouit tha ka 4 good reason,, she kood always add his name later if things pan out,,i think he has an agenda 4 tha ka,,

If he wasn't verbally abusive to you BlueSkies I would agree with what Hillobeans said, but being verbally abusive is no different than him being physically abusive...the ONLY difference is, he's hitting you inwardly and not outwardly...none of it is of God and in my opinion you don't have a marriage. You are living with a man who doesn't know who HE is and does not respect you. I know it's "just a car" however you have to think of your well being as well as your children. I go back to what I originally said...if you don't have peace, then I wouldn't do it. I don't think your lack of peace is about your unforgivness...I think its because you KNOW he can't be trusted.

All in all, it's about what God tells you to do. Only you and God know everything that is going on in that house and God will give you the guidance you need to do the right thing based on your family. You asked for Wisdom and in my heart I believe you have received it however, it's still up to you.

Ciao!

I have a question...what do your parents have to say about the registering of your car since they blessed you with most of the money?? Parents can be a good source of wisdom.

My mom said to put it in my name!

um ur parents kno an u kno wats the best option here,,i think this is just tha tip of the iceberg,,

ugh,,,