Part 6: How God showed me the man I'm supposed to be with through dreams and visions

December 29, 2007 “Burying the old me”
I dreamed that I was going on a date and my dad went with me. Before we went on our date my dad led my husband and I to a railroad track. I began to be concerned because I met him on the internet and it was a bit of a blind date. I thought “oh no, I hope they aren’t going to kill me and bury my body.” When I thought that, that’s exactly what happened. I was watching as I saw my dad hand him this shovel to dig a hole and bury my body in a shallow grave under a railroad track. I also remember pitching in to help them bury me. I was ready to get it over with so I could go on my date. I also wanted to make sure we came back for my body before it started stinking so I could bury it at home. I didn’t want it stinking, but my dad wanted it left where it was.
*My family was getting nervous about me meeting him on December 31st. I knew I’d had this dream as a result of their fears of me being harmed by a man I’d met over the internet. But I also knew there was significance to this dream. The meaning of this dream is that before my husband and I went on our date, a part of me would die. I also knew that he and I were being led by our Heavenly Father. The marriage between Joe and I had so recently been dissolved and I knew this meant that I would be moving on after meeting my husband and to not take any old baggage with me or it would start stinking. I was also steadily getting very excited about meeting him. Also, in this dream my husband was my stepbrother in some parts. But I knew it was him because of similarities between my stepbrother in my dream and my husband in real life. I believe God used the symbol of my stepbrother to show me that we both share the same Heavenly Father. And He wanted me to know we were being led by Him and it was His will for us to be together.

JANUARY 1st 2008

On my way to meet my husband at the movies, I was so nervous. I felt in my spirit and in my heart that this was the man God had handpicked for me to be with. Yet I prayed once more that the Lord would confirm it when I saw him for the first time. I said “Lord, I feel like I already know he is the one, but PLEASE show me a sign when I meet him. Please just let me know FOR SURE he’s the one. One more sign Lord please.” When he and I saw each other for the first time, I was very happy and felt at peace about him. I mean the man was gorgeous, and I knew I liked him instantly. But I was listening and waiting to hear from God. I was waiting for the sign I’d asked for. We discussed our plans for the night and we decided to go eat first. So I got in my car to meet him at the restaurant. As soon as I sat down and cranked the car, I hear these words on the radio “He’s the one you’ve been looking for, he’s the one you’ve been waiting for…you don’t have to look no more..” I was like ok God I hear you! We had an amazing time and we both felt the presence of the Holy Spirit as we began to get to know each other better in person. We went to IHOP and brought in the New Year. I remember telling him that 2008 was supposed to stand for “new beginings.” He looked at me and said “Lets make one then!” Even after that amazing night, satan came at me with doubt. There were several things were so different about. So I prayed continually about them. God showed me in several dreams that the things I was worried about would come to nothing. He was right as always I never had a thing to worry about. There were times even after our date that I asked the Lord for more confirmations because of how hard satan came at me. God is so patient and I’m so glad He is because He continued to come through for me. I got several confirmations after we met. It was amazing to see all the dreams I’d had about him come true. There are so many that I’ve left out. Maybe one day if God tells me I’ll write every one of them down…until then if anyone has any specific questions…just email me and I’ll tell you!


Here are a few confirmations I had after we met.

January 2, 2008 “prophetic dream”
I dreamed that God gave me a prophetic word that my husband was the one and that he had also received a prophetic word from God and we were sharing them with each other.
*The very next day he asked me through a text if I was ready to live happily ever after. He also told me he felt good about the relationship and that he felt it was God’s Will. That was the first time I told him I pretty much knew he was the one. I just didn’t go into details till much later.

Great stuff Daphanie